I’ve visited twice in the time she’s been in as need to alternate between other family members. She’s still on life support but was taken out of an induced coma and this was the first time I would have been able to see/speak to her awake since she was admitted over two weeks ago. Not sure when I’ll be able to go again due to work and other family members also wanting to visit.
The worst part is that I didn’t go? I decided to stay home, but even then I was completely shut out all day and she decided to do the nursery pick up without me anyway.
As such she normalizes that kind of parenthood experience even when I offered to do 90% of the lifting during the day, hire night nannies, stay at home cooks + cleaners etc. to lighten the load compared to her mom's experience
Ehm…why don't you become a stay-at-home parent if you want kids that badly? Not everyone is in favour of hiring this much help, especially at the start.
. I've been encouraging her to address the above with medication + therapy and she is making very slow progress.
What if she decides that bio kids aren't for her? Will you insist on surrogacy (if legal), or adoption?
Tell him to make his dick bigger. Problem solved. Do not tolerate rape and a guy who gets pleasure from your pain. He does NOT care about you or have your best interests at heart.
But I honestly believe you're 100% right and I should let it go . I just can't, I can't bring myself to just leave. I don't want a life without her , she was my everything. I just wanted her to admit it , I'll be gladly just remain friends with her if she was to just tell me the truth
Wow that’s even worse. He literally ignored your request.
Honestly this is making your age gap way more problematic too. He doesn’t seem to respect you and will likely continue imposing his desires over your needs. He probably goes after young women like yourself hoping you’ll be easier to control.
Guys that won't commit but want you to aren't in love with you, they are using you as a placeholder til “better” comes along. Let him have better because, sis, you're the best! Forget him, focus on living your best life and be at your best when your king comes to claim his queen!
I also probably wouldn’t tell girlfriend about the other girl situation but communication about your feelings on your relationship would be okay.
I’ve visited twice in the time she’s been in as need to alternate between other family members. She’s still on life support but was taken out of an induced coma and this was the first time I would have been able to see/speak to her awake since she was admitted over two weeks ago. Not sure when I’ll be able to go again due to work and other family members also wanting to visit.
The worst part is that I didn’t go? I decided to stay home, but even then I was completely shut out all day and she decided to do the nursery pick up without me anyway.
Awww…Canada ❤️
She caught feelings lol
How can I save this? How can I help him move on from the past?
As such she normalizes that kind of parenthood experience even when I offered to do 90% of the lifting during the day, hire night nannies, stay at home cooks + cleaners etc. to lighten the load compared to her mom's experience
Ehm…why don't you become a stay-at-home parent if you want kids that badly? Not everyone is in favour of hiring this much help, especially at the start.
. I've been encouraging her to address the above with medication + therapy and she is making very slow progress.
What if she decides that bio kids aren't for her? Will you insist on surrogacy (if legal), or adoption?
Tell him to make his dick bigger. Problem solved. Do not tolerate rape and a guy who gets pleasure from your pain. He does NOT care about you or have your best interests at heart.
But I honestly believe you're 100% right and I should let it go . I just can't, I can't bring myself to just leave. I don't want a life without her , she was my everything. I just wanted her to admit it , I'll be gladly just remain friends with her if she was to just tell me the truth
Wow that’s even worse. He literally ignored your request.
Honestly this is making your age gap way more problematic too. He doesn’t seem to respect you and will likely continue imposing his desires over your needs. He probably goes after young women like yourself hoping you’ll be easier to control.
HUGE red flag.
Guys that won't commit but want you to aren't in love with you, they are using you as a placeholder til “better” comes along. Let him have better because, sis, you're the best! Forget him, focus on living your best life and be at your best when your king comes to claim his queen!