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So, again, you’re saying you don’t want advice. You asked if it can last/work, the answer everyone is clearly giving you is a resounding no because the very foundation you’ve built this relationship on is a power dynamic that she will eventually outgrow. By that I mean, you clearly used your position and network to manipulate her because she literally didn’t know better. She will absolutely wise up as she becomes a mother.
You just don’t like the answer you are hearing and have convinced yourself you are a “nice guy.” You’re not. You’re manipulative AF (please refer to the example you provided about the escort). I promise you that’s not the first time you did something like that, just the first time you’ve admitted it to yourself. You are in need of therapy and you should figure out how to co-parent and set her free before you damage her more with your manipulation. This will not last and she will grow to resent your manipulation and control.
However, you’re not here for advice, you’re here for validation, which you are not getting.
“Me brother said it’s not true cuz the Bible says god lives all his children”
What did he expect your bf to say??? you’re brother literally just pulled out “the Bible says so” card.
Because theres a lot of noise in the area but the other guys usually get closer to me if they want to communicate with me or they talk close to me ear and i do the same. When he pulled me closer he was already right in front of me and there was lots of noise but the way he gently did it felt romantic to me
It's not bait. There's a few things that make me uncomfortable, but I don't think it's that bad aside the comment she made last night. Otherwise I never would've posted here, but then again a lot of her behaviour has been concerning so idk what to think anymore.
I don't want to separate, I want us to work on this together. I made a promise to be with her for life and I take that seriously. Unless you meant physically, like giving each other space and yeah I would like that, I love her but I need some time on my own alone or with friends.
Someone else suggested marriage counselling. I will suggest that to her and hope she doesn't get too hurt by it.
It's not having thin skin. Id be pissed off. If buying the watch meant so much to him, he should have made it clear. She was trying to be a loving partner and wanted to make him happy. That backfired because the OP is clueless…..as are you ?♀️
Why are you dating at 34 year old man who doesn't have his shit together? Raise your standards, girl.
I have always had this rule/boundary for myself in relationships that I do not want to move in with a partner until after we are engaged.
Cool, but don't be sad if you end up being engaged multiple times and not a single wedding.
He's a bad host. He should have offered her food in advance. It's weird how you'd leave a guest hungry in your home and get angry if they try to find something in the kitchen
LDRs are a lot of work. And if it feels like a chore, it's off to a bad start.
I like e-dates. Streaming a film together or finding a game to play together. Spontaneous talks that unexpectedly go super deep and before you realise it, its 4am and you've pretty much laid every insecurity, kink and pretty much your entire soul out on the table.
But if it really does feel like too much work, it probably is sadly.
This is beyond having nothing to hide. Just talking to the AP open up old wounds. The AP cannot be in your life.
There is no reason why the AP should have reached out to you. He knows that he had an affair to you. His doing so shows that he has regards for your marriage, yourself or your husband.
If I was you I woud not be going to that event.
not yet (??) i called him a while ago, no response hence i left a voicemail mail.
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My husband and I have been together for 20+ years. We’ve been through tons of ups and downs, but for the most part have had a very strong relationship. Our daughter (16) is older now and we’ve started to hang out with other couples on the weekends for fun. This past weekend we took a long weekend trip with his sister and her husband as well as their two close friends who have only been married a few years. Everyone drinks a lot on these kinds of weekends. I’ve recently tried to dial that back because of all of the negative effects of alcohol being too much for me anymore. Because I was sober I noticed a lot of behaviors from the group including my husband.
The younger couple with us always talks about their sex life in a rather explicit way. The husband (late 30s) makes comments about letting the other guys “have” his wife (mid 20s) for a while. I’ll call her young wife for the purpose of this post. It is presented as a joke but is constantly a theme while drinking, and the men progress to aggressively flirt with this man’s wife the more they drink. The husband of young wife does attempt to flirt with me but I shut down comments quickly and don’t allow that behavior towards me. So no one is flirting with me. This has always made me very uncomfortable when we are around them. I’ve been SA’d in the past and have a very high guard up in general.
My husband clearly thinks young wife is attractive, because she truly is. She’s also very nice but incredibly naive. Im not sure how she really feels about it. I do think it makes her a bit uncomfortable at times but it also seems like she enjoys the attention too. I was dreading our trip with them because of all of this. A day or so in my husband got very drunk and put his hand on her leg while she was sitting in between us in a golf cart. Later she had changed to go to the pool and came down in her swimsuit with just a t-shirt and no pants. I caught my husband in the kitchen with her with his hand rubbing her lower back and he did that light “accidental” brush of her rear with his hand that guys do. I didn’t want to make a scene so I stayed in the kitchen and he just kept coming back to see if we were still there. His behavior was similar throughout the day and I called him out on it that night when we went to bed. We didn’t sleep and discussed it all night. He swore he isn’t trying to cheat on me. When we got home I left for three days and didn’t speak to him. When I got back I read his text messages and social media. He doesn’t have contact with her outside of when we see them in those social situations. He agreed to stop drinking and admitted how bad his behavior was.
Here is part of the issue. I mentioned my husbands sister and her husband. They are best friends with young wife and her husband. If we visit them they are always there too, they even come to holidays. I’m not mad at young wife, my husband was the one in the wrong. I don’t know how to handle being around them though. I don’t know how to handle all of this. I do think he has a little crush on her and has let it get out of hand, but I don’t believe he is physically cheating. I don’t know if I can be around the group which is complicated since they are family friends.
TLDR – Husband got drunk and handsy with a family friend. Don’t think he is actively cheating, but I don’t know how to handle being around them anymore.
She did say does. I do use “can you” / “could you” for a lot of things and in this particular context I was more assertive and didn't pose it as question but rather a request (and not an order in my eyes which would have been something like “You need to be more proactive” or “Be more proactive!”.
I came across a pretty interesting piece which says there are “asks”, “requests” and “orders” – which I believe would be in the following sequence “can you? / could you? be more proactive”, “Please be more proactive” and “Be more proactive!”
At my end it is sort of imperative in the long run that she do learn to be more proactive about things and so its less of a question and more of a request cause it's affecting the both of us.
I have ADHD, I’m not medicated nor do I go to therapy. And I also “self medicate with no tobacco.” Yet I can still function like an adult and go to work, go to the grocery store, go to the gym, go home, clean, cook, and do all other activities that come with being an adult. Your boyfriend is a child and you need to stop taking care of him. He doesn’t deserve it. Not to mention you pay his child support??? That’s a deadbeat if I’ve ever seen one. You can do so much better than this.
So he has chosen their privacy over your relationship. No, he has chosen just her over you.
You do not need proof, just leave him. This isn't a courthouse his attitude in conjunction with his behaviour would make most people break up with them some time earlier already. I am sorry to say this, but it is the best way.