I think you need to break up, I dont do that as a girlfriend for any of my boyfriend. Can’t he cook for you? Eat you out? Sounds like he isn’t doing anything as a boyfriend (buying you stuff doesn’t count).
You like her, you thought you saw a potential future, but her behavior threw you for a loop, and rightly so. That level of dependency at this stage is a huge red flag and does not speak well for her ability to have a healthy relationship. She needs to work on herself some – 'cause it sounds like she's looking for a co-dependency.
So so sorry this happened to you and I’m glad you’ve made the best decision for yourself. Please be very careful with your ex fiancés best friend though. Her offering to come over to comfort you is highly suspicious-her saying all those compliments to you and how her own best friend didn’t deserve you hints that she may have has a hand in encouraging something or at the very least she wants to move in on you. None of those possibilities excuse your ex as she is a grown woman, but that bestie sounds sneaky af & I would cut her out of your life too.
Does she have an issue if you’re doing other stuff like watching TV or hanging out with your friends without her? Or does she just not like video games?
If she’s specifically annoyed with your FIFA gaming, that strikes me as weird. It’s no different than if she were watching Netflix for 3 hours a week.
This is assuming your estimate of 3 hours of fifa a week is accurate.
Dude shes going to a Raven's game with a college friend, that's it, there's nothing wrong about it and you are being extremely insecure.
You are only going to push her away with your attitude.
I think you need to break up, I dont do that as a girlfriend for any of my boyfriend. Can’t he cook for you? Eat you out? Sounds like he isn’t doing anything as a boyfriend (buying you stuff doesn’t count).
Um…..
Trust your gut here. Run.
You like her, you thought you saw a potential future, but her behavior threw you for a loop, and rightly so. That level of dependency at this stage is a huge red flag and does not speak well for her ability to have a healthy relationship. She needs to work on herself some – 'cause it sounds like she's looking for a co-dependency.
Yuck, don't date someone who demeans you. You are worth 1M times more than this guy.
So so sorry this happened to you and I’m glad you’ve made the best decision for yourself. Please be very careful with your ex fiancés best friend though. Her offering to come over to comfort you is highly suspicious-her saying all those compliments to you and how her own best friend didn’t deserve you hints that she may have has a hand in encouraging something or at the very least she wants to move in on you. None of those possibilities excuse your ex as she is a grown woman, but that bestie sounds sneaky af & I would cut her out of your life too.
Does she have an issue if you’re doing other stuff like watching TV or hanging out with your friends without her? Or does she just not like video games?
If she’s specifically annoyed with your FIFA gaming, that strikes me as weird. It’s no different than if she were watching Netflix for 3 hours a week.
This is assuming your estimate of 3 hours of fifa a week is accurate.
People say stuff they don’t mean all the time. There’s a reason he hasn’t asked you yet, and in my experience, “not ready” means “not ready for you.”
Been friends for 21 years but weren’t in contact for the last 19? Am I reading that right?
You don’t know her if that’s the case. You like the idea of her maybe but just be her friend and look elsewhere for a relationship and go to therapy