She is single too – as far as I know. Earlier, Divorce had been much harder for her than it was for me. Over the last year, she has got over it, changed her lifestyle choices, got over her depression. While I got sucked into missing the family life.
If this is a dealbreaker then let her know respectfully that it’s important to you, and you respect her choice so it’s better that you end the relationship. Otherwise you’ll end up resenting/pressuring and that’s not fair to either of you.
And do some research on the side effects of hormonal birth control before you act so cavalier about taking it. It sucks, it just sucks less than having a baby would do it’s worth the trade off for the minimizing of risk for most of us.
I would simply pack her a couple of bags and escort her out the door and tell her she can now sleep with anyone she wants and she should just let you know where to have the divorce papers served.
Women who mention this, especially when in bed, either already have a partner(s) picked out and have been talking to them OR they have already been doing it and they feel guilty or you have nearly caught her/them so she wants to bring it out into the open.
You can tell her the only way you will consider any type of reconciliation is if she comes clean now about EVERYTHING AND posts a poll on all of her social media pages asking her friends and family if they think it is a good idea for her to explore her sexuality.
Sorry this happened dude. The best thing you can do is try for a quick and amicable split but make sure your friends and family know this is NOT your idea and that she is the one cheating or wanting to cheat.
Respect would be one thing
She is single too – as far as I know. Earlier, Divorce had been much harder for her than it was for me. Over the last year, she has got over it, changed her lifestyle choices, got over her depression. While I got sucked into missing the family life.
Hopefully your partner cuts some toxicity out of his life aka you
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If this is a dealbreaker then let her know respectfully that it’s important to you, and you respect her choice so it’s better that you end the relationship. Otherwise you’ll end up resenting/pressuring and that’s not fair to either of you.
And do some research on the side effects of hormonal birth control before you act so cavalier about taking it. It sucks, it just sucks less than having a baby would do it’s worth the trade off for the minimizing of risk for most of us.
You're entering self-fulfilling prophecy territory, mate.
I would simply pack her a couple of bags and escort her out the door and tell her she can now sleep with anyone she wants and she should just let you know where to have the divorce papers served.
Women who mention this, especially when in bed, either already have a partner(s) picked out and have been talking to them OR they have already been doing it and they feel guilty or you have nearly caught her/them so she wants to bring it out into the open.
You can tell her the only way you will consider any type of reconciliation is if she comes clean now about EVERYTHING AND posts a poll on all of her social media pages asking her friends and family if they think it is a good idea for her to explore her sexuality.
Sorry this happened dude. The best thing you can do is try for a quick and amicable split but make sure your friends and family know this is NOT your idea and that she is the one cheating or wanting to cheat.
I think this example actually supports not keeping around “wistful” friends