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Birth Date: 1992-04-09
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Date: October 16, 2022
This won’t last that long if you can’t come to some understanding. I’m sorry he has to work so nude but your relationship has to matter some degree.
Finally someone said it?
Honestly? Don't tell him until you're serious about getting married. As in, you're already engaged and hopefully planning your wedding.
Also, discuss getting a prenup. Keep your assets safe for you and your hypothetical future children.
Wife: “You’ll never believe what happened at the neighbors….” You: “That’s crazy! Are you okay? How do you feel about it? How do you want to handle it?”
Instead, you are ready to condemn everyone and not listen to the wife.
Good luck with that.
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Do you have sex with him?
Do you want to have children with him?
I know friends are great at being there for each other. But it's a different level of fulfilling that tends to be wanted from an actual partner. Does he fulfill any of your emotional needs?
I’m not trying to justify his actions here but I’m trying to make sure I think things through properly.. he’s always had more female friends then men and has recently said he wants to grow his friend group and get more social. But the high number of women and almost no chat record with them makes me worry..
Yes, there is a chance that’s the reason. But it still means that there is a chance it isn’t. People, in general, tend to start reminiscing if they run into old friends or if there is something like a wedding, birth, or death. And sometimes it will be friends of a certain time period that includes their ex. That doesn’t always mean that you want to get back with your ex. Sometimes you just think, this person wasn’t with me long, but something major happened that shaped me and how I am and I wonder how they are doing. Maybe that person wanted to give up on themselves but their ex made them change their mind. Or the ex introduced them to someone that changed their perspective on life or religion or something that helped along the path. It is wrong to assume that someone reaching out has bad intentions without proof.
I appreciate the genuine response. Most here seems to think I'm trying to defend my side or looking for validation.. It was a genuine inquiry about a real thing going on in my life that I'm struggling with.
I didn't go into great detail about my failed marriage here but the cliff notes are married in 08 (too young). I knew it was a mistake as I was saying I do. Child was born in 11 and we separated in 13. Got back together in 15. Divorced in 16. In 15 when we got back together I did so with my guard up expecting to be hurt again.. We had a great surface relationship. I enjoyed being with her if I just ignored the truth and pushed all the suspicions down. I saw her cheating with my best friend as a blessing in disguise. He did me a favor. I would not have left on my own because some of my major character flaws are being patient to a fault and never wanting to rock the boat, be the center of attention or hurt anyone even if it's what's best for me. That's why I say I was more upset about losing the friend.
I went through the hate phase until I was blue in the face. But I did some self discovery and realized I deserved some blame as well. I was someone just drifting through life. Not wanting to better myself because I have a career I can retire from. Just stuck in a day to day rut. I was not the leader of my family. I didn't handle any of the bills, dr appts, house stuff, basically just another child for my ex to take care of when I wasn't working. I wasn't growing or maturing as a person. Not saying it's an excuse for her doing what she did, but I can clearly see why she was severely unhappy and probably dealing with depression. I wasn't there for her with her post partum and didn't show the appropriate amount of support after we had a miscarriage in 10. I was a bad partner in my own right.
We were just 2 people that shouldn't have got married in the first place. Better off friends. But you're right. My boy can't see that his mother and I talk. I don't owe her anything and owe my gf a lot more. This has all been a huge learning curve. When I get home (I'm in AZ this week for spring training with some friends) I'm going to do what I said in my original post, set up the dry erase board in my son's room for the magnet of his mother along with anything else and I'll have the discussion with him about it and why it isn't appropriate in a common area.
She literally wrote that he was visibly distressed and then was sobbing in the other room.