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I had an ex who I had blocked on all social media and my phone. He made fake profiles so he could contact me, would call my new BF’s place of business and harass him, try to sabotage his job… it was a whole mess. This ex was mentally and emotionally abusive and unstable. Which is why it ended. The guy I was seeing, he had a temper himself, even though he never turned it on towards me, I just saw it. So I never actually told him about what Corey had been doing until way later. He wasn’t happy about me not telling him right away, but I also didn’t want and altercations going down. I changed jobs (he would show up there) and phone numbers. Almost moved because he would show up at my house. Came very close to a restraining order.
Point being, I understand where your BF is coming from, but he shouldn’t be taking it out on you. Maybe in the morning try to talk to him again, when you have both calmed down. He needs to understand that you aren’t giving your ex any reason to contact you, you aren’t inviting any of this attention. Change your number if you need to. While I agree his outburst is a red flag, and that he’s being a little possessive, he’s also being protective.
Sure they have, and life expectancy used to be a third it is now. Contemporary culture has far more of an impact than historical precedence and 21 is not an age our current culture associates with being fully adult and therefore the vast majority of 21yo do not have the knowledge or resources to successfully parent. Patenting is hard at any age but when you yourself are still developing your frontal lobe it’s extra hot
I have talked to my fiancé about the husband stitch and how I’m terrified of it. He agrees that it’s horrific and doesn’t understand how someone could be so selfish that they’d want to cause their partner that kind of pain.
I see two scenarios, either your husband truly is oblivious and you need to educate him on what he’s talking about, or he’s an asshole. I’d start with some articles about the husband stitch and general pain during sex after having a baby and see how he reacts to that
For an “Ask Culture” person like OP, being the subject of a “Guess Culture” person's dancing-around-the-point until they finally decide whether to communicate clearly (or not) or you finally guess what they wanted is exhausting, and that burden isn't assuaged if they decide to eventually just say what they mean.
Additionally, that's if the wife is actually doing this in a healthy manner, which in my (biased) experience is not as common as we might hope.
Once again we don't have the info here to properly judge, but I very much doubt the solution is for OP's wife to refuse to compromise as she is currently doing.
Please don't beat yourself up. None of this was your fault. You were drunk enough to be refused entry to a club, I think your judgment was probably more impaired than you realise.
Yes ask for confidentiality before you disclose, when dealing with university staff. Also, while that night seems to be what triggered his bullying to get worse, it doesn't mean it's the cause. The cause is HIM, him choosing to bully you and his anger and aggression towards you.
When people are targeted by bullies its quite common to feel shame, as if being bullied means there is something wrong with you. But there is NOTHING wrong with you. This guy you on-line with is a creep.
Did you read your post? Didn't you already set a boundary for him, and he crossed it?. And you are still looking for a means of preventing them from hooking up. Your bf is the one that needs to act, but he isn't doing anything. You'll eventually discover them fckin each other, its just a matter of time.
You say you've been together for approx. 1½ years, but do you realise that it has been almost a year since your boyfriend changed his attitude and started putting in less effort? Do you realise that that means things have only been good for 1/3 of your relationship?
His excuse is always we’re past the honeymoon stage so it won’t be the same.
The only people who bring that up and use it as an excuse for anything at all are people who don't understand that happy relationships require consistent effort on both ends.
Is he going to use that as an excuse for not doing the dishes or watching your future kid as well?
Should I see this as a deal breaker or can I stick through and make it work?
Yes, yes, you should absolutely see it as a deal-breaker that your boyfriend can't even be bothered to be kind to you anymore. You deserve more.
He doesn't seem to have an issue with doctors seeing them. I can just about understand not wanting other clients seeing them, but the way I see it, tattoo artists and piercers are professionals and usually keep a professional standard. They see this sorta thing on the regular and I on-line in an area where the creepy ones are outed really quick, so it's well known who to avoid within minutes of them doing something slightly wrong
I had an ex who I had blocked on all social media and my phone. He made fake profiles so he could contact me, would call my new BF’s place of business and harass him, try to sabotage his job… it was a whole mess. This ex was mentally and emotionally abusive and unstable. Which is why it ended. The guy I was seeing, he had a temper himself, even though he never turned it on towards me, I just saw it. So I never actually told him about what Corey had been doing until way later. He wasn’t happy about me not telling him right away, but I also didn’t want and altercations going down. I changed jobs (he would show up there) and phone numbers. Almost moved because he would show up at my house. Came very close to a restraining order.
Point being, I understand where your BF is coming from, but he shouldn’t be taking it out on you. Maybe in the morning try to talk to him again, when you have both calmed down. He needs to understand that you aren’t giving your ex any reason to contact you, you aren’t inviting any of this attention. Change your number if you need to. While I agree his outburst is a red flag, and that he’s being a little possessive, he’s also being protective.
Sure they have, and life expectancy used to be a third it is now. Contemporary culture has far more of an impact than historical precedence and 21 is not an age our current culture associates with being fully adult and therefore the vast majority of 21yo do not have the knowledge or resources to successfully parent. Patenting is hard at any age but when you yourself are still developing your frontal lobe it’s extra hot
I have talked to my fiancé about the husband stitch and how I’m terrified of it. He agrees that it’s horrific and doesn’t understand how someone could be so selfish that they’d want to cause their partner that kind of pain.
I see two scenarios, either your husband truly is oblivious and you need to educate him on what he’s talking about, or he’s an asshole. I’d start with some articles about the husband stitch and general pain during sex after having a baby and see how he reacts to that
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Functional adult men do not have vices to deal with stress.
For an “Ask Culture” person like OP, being the subject of a “Guess Culture” person's dancing-around-the-point until they finally decide whether to communicate clearly (or not) or you finally guess what they wanted is exhausting, and that burden isn't assuaged if they decide to eventually just say what they mean.
Additionally, that's if the wife is actually doing this in a healthy manner, which in my (biased) experience is not as common as we might hope.
Once again we don't have the info here to properly judge, but I very much doubt the solution is for OP's wife to refuse to compromise as she is currently doing.
Please don't beat yourself up. None of this was your fault. You were drunk enough to be refused entry to a club, I think your judgment was probably more impaired than you realise.
Yes ask for confidentiality before you disclose, when dealing with university staff. Also, while that night seems to be what triggered his bullying to get worse, it doesn't mean it's the cause. The cause is HIM, him choosing to bully you and his anger and aggression towards you.
When people are targeted by bullies its quite common to feel shame, as if being bullied means there is something wrong with you. But there is NOTHING wrong with you. This guy you on-line with is a creep.
Did you read your post? Didn't you already set a boundary for him, and he crossed it?. And you are still looking for a means of preventing them from hooking up. Your bf is the one that needs to act, but he isn't doing anything. You'll eventually discover them fckin each other, its just a matter of time.
It was tongue in cheek…but all FOUR kids aren’t his?! And they gave different fathers? Wtf? That poor man.
Things started to really change April of 2022
You say you've been together for approx. 1½ years, but do you realise that it has been almost a year since your boyfriend changed his attitude and started putting in less effort? Do you realise that that means things have only been good for 1/3 of your relationship?
His excuse is always we’re past the honeymoon stage so it won’t be the same.
The only people who bring that up and use it as an excuse for anything at all are people who don't understand that happy relationships require consistent effort on both ends.
Is he going to use that as an excuse for not doing the dishes or watching your future kid as well?
Should I see this as a deal breaker or can I stick through and make it work?
Yes, yes, you should absolutely see it as a deal-breaker that your boyfriend can't even be bothered to be kind to you anymore. You deserve more.
He doesn't seem to have an issue with doctors seeing them. I can just about understand not wanting other clients seeing them, but the way I see it, tattoo artists and piercers are professionals and usually keep a professional standard. They see this sorta thing on the regular and I on-line in an area where the creepy ones are outed really quick, so it's well known who to avoid within minutes of them doing something slightly wrong
Their relationship hurts you. If he truly values your relationship, he would cut it off. Actions speak louder than words