How do you know that she “definitely” knows about an unspoken rule? I agree most western women probably do, but I wouldn’t take it as 100%. Get your fiancé to find out if she’s ACTUALLY planning to wear this dress – if she is, then he can handle it, and explain why it’s rude. If she doesn’t budge, let her do it and embarrass herself, but there’s a couple of things that might avoid a big situation.
Sorry to say but if your boyfriend surrounds himself with racists and people who are cool with racists, he's a racist too. If someone in my friend group started spewing off some racist nonsense, they would be immediately escorted to the door because nobody I'm close to has a single nanosecond of time for that.
If you're not actively anti-racist, you're racist. And unfortunately that goes for you continuing to date your racist apologist boyfriend too. I bet if you scratched the surface you'd find that he agrees with Racist Tom's rhetoric more than he cares to admit.
100% OP is crazy to be involved with this girl
What is in the comments?
So you just want to get married to escape your family?
Not a good reason.
Your bf is the sensible once here waiting until he is financially stable.
I hope he doesn’t give in to your unreasonable pressure.
Ok this was good ish, well played
I can make a cute post asking conversin with my cat, who talks all the time.
Unfortunately, however, I think I'm beginning to understand him.
Send help
How do you know that she “definitely” knows about an unspoken rule? I agree most western women probably do, but I wouldn’t take it as 100%. Get your fiancé to find out if she’s ACTUALLY planning to wear this dress – if she is, then he can handle it, and explain why it’s rude. If she doesn’t budge, let her do it and embarrass herself, but there’s a couple of things that might avoid a big situation.
Bruh my thoughts exactly. The cab driver is a dick, but why is OP even in this position in the first place.
Not until they are out of a relationship.
I swear this is an old post reposted with very similar replies.
Sorry to say but if your boyfriend surrounds himself with racists and people who are cool with racists, he's a racist too. If someone in my friend group started spewing off some racist nonsense, they would be immediately escorted to the door because nobody I'm close to has a single nanosecond of time for that.
If you're not actively anti-racist, you're racist. And unfortunately that goes for you continuing to date your racist apologist boyfriend too. I bet if you scratched the surface you'd find that he agrees with Racist Tom's rhetoric more than he cares to admit.