It’ll hurt extra when it comes out when you’re sick, or trying on wedding outfits, or post partum depression, or if something god forbid happens that brings you into a spiral.
“ Yeah do you have any mental health issues? Yeah I’m struggling with these things, I’m working with a therapist and doing okay right now though!” And leave it at that. Just be like look I have these problems, so they don’t come around to bite you in the butt, but I have my own coping mechanisms and dealing methods and you shouldn’t have to deal with any of it.
If you’re not doing well right now then there’s no way that someone who lives with you or sleeps with you or comes over on lazy sundays won’t see it without thinking you’re an asshole or mean to them or just chaotic
Imagine being blown up by Reddit because you found other women attractive. Just say you watch porn and get horny as all guys do, but if it’s a boundary for her you’ll stop.
Yes in a bassinet they are co sleeping with the baby which doctors will say is a big no no and OP said maybe by 2 they will move her into her own room.
And did he transfered the money he spend? It is 7 weeks since the cruise.
I wish you the best with the second chance and hope he doesn't hurt you. But if you see that you doubt everything in the back of your mind then the trust is to much gone.
And i personally would close the joint account. Like you see it just cause problems. Your relationship isn't on this stage yet especially now that the trust is gone.
No. This situation is shady
It’ll hurt extra when it comes out when you’re sick, or trying on wedding outfits, or post partum depression, or if something god forbid happens that brings you into a spiral.
“ Yeah do you have any mental health issues? Yeah I’m struggling with these things, I’m working with a therapist and doing okay right now though!” And leave it at that. Just be like look I have these problems, so they don’t come around to bite you in the butt, but I have my own coping mechanisms and dealing methods and you shouldn’t have to deal with any of it.
If you’re not doing well right now then there’s no way that someone who lives with you or sleeps with you or comes over on lazy sundays won’t see it without thinking you’re an asshole or mean to them or just chaotic
Imagine being blown up by Reddit because you found other women attractive. Just say you watch porn and get horny as all guys do, but if it’s a boundary for her you’ll stop.
Just take the glasses and when he finally asks about them hold them hostage until an explanation is given.
Good advice for a strong relationship- no. Will get you an answer- yes.
You could just ask what he bought for 350$ since you checked your account….
Just take the glasses and when he finally asks about them hold them hostage until an explanation is given.
Good advice for a strong relationship- no. Will get you an answer- yes.
You could just ask what he bought for 350$ since you checked your account….
Yes in a bassinet they are co sleeping with the baby which doctors will say is a big no no and OP said maybe by 2 they will move her into her own room.
And did he transfered the money he spend? It is 7 weeks since the cruise.
I wish you the best with the second chance and hope he doesn't hurt you. But if you see that you doubt everything in the back of your mind then the trust is to much gone.
And i personally would close the joint account. Like you see it just cause problems. Your relationship isn't on this stage yet especially now that the trust is gone.
Because it's not just blood. It's uterine lining, clots, mucus, a bunch of different shit.
Yikes. This sounds like a feminicide waiting to happen.
The best way to do that is no contact. He's trying to wrangle back into your life. He misses his emotional punching bag