Ok, that’s real bad.. But, I’m going to get downvoted to all hell for this but I read my husband your post (full beard) his response was “ good for him, standing up for himself. Could you imagine if the rolls were reversed and his wife got a hair cut he HATED or a perm and he said he wouldn’t/couldn’t have sex with her unless she changed it. Even though she really liked it?” He’s trying something new, is it hideous? Sure, but he’s allowed to do whatever he wants with his body hair.
Exactly this! I'm a married woman with male friends my husband has female friends if he so much as has to drop his friends off or give them rides i know about it! If I'm going to hang out with my friend Alex he knows about it!
If he goes for a drink with our mutual female friend i know about it. When u feel like u need to hide tht shit.. something inside u isn't right.
Then u know ur fucking up and u don't want to admit it.
You dodged a bullet. Shs was spending money that is not hers in any way, nor contributed to. She was also claiming your money as hers when you're not married, engaged, or living wirh. Both are major red flags that you should not ignore even if she back tracks. If she does back track, don't trust her because she just showed her true colors.
To be kind and to not act out is for the ones that are worthy….the wife here is definitely not worthy of anything. Why should he care anymore? You preach about the reaction that it came from an action. The severity of the reaction is not so important anymore. And when I said poly with a twist it is the same as her cheating and calling it poly. Whatever he does as long as he doesn't touch her physically is okay and he doesn't have to mask his own feelings for her!!!
Not defending OP, because what she did was definitely childish and wrong. However, are people not allowed to extend kindness and hope for people to grow when they’ve messed up? It’s just very weird y’all are okay with people being harsh but not with them being kind.
Ok, that’s real bad.. But, I’m going to get downvoted to all hell for this but I read my husband your post (full beard) his response was “ good for him, standing up for himself. Could you imagine if the rolls were reversed and his wife got a hair cut he HATED or a perm and he said he wouldn’t/couldn’t have sex with her unless she changed it. Even though she really liked it?” He’s trying something new, is it hideous? Sure, but he’s allowed to do whatever he wants with his body hair.
Explained the situation a bit more in my other comment. It’s extremely weird the situation I’m in.
Exactly this! I'm a married woman with male friends my husband has female friends if he so much as has to drop his friends off or give them rides i know about it! If I'm going to hang out with my friend Alex he knows about it!
If he goes for a drink with our mutual female friend i know about it. When u feel like u need to hide tht shit.. something inside u isn't right.
Then u know ur fucking up and u don't want to admit it.
You dodged a bullet. Shs was spending money that is not hers in any way, nor contributed to. She was also claiming your money as hers when you're not married, engaged, or living wirh. Both are major red flags that you should not ignore even if she back tracks. If she does back track, don't trust her because she just showed her true colors.
To be kind and to not act out is for the ones that are worthy….the wife here is definitely not worthy of anything. Why should he care anymore? You preach about the reaction that it came from an action. The severity of the reaction is not so important anymore. And when I said poly with a twist it is the same as her cheating and calling it poly. Whatever he does as long as he doesn't touch her physically is okay and he doesn't have to mask his own feelings for her!!!
You're right, I have no idea. Maybe hope beyond hope?
Not defending OP, because what she did was definitely childish and wrong. However, are people not allowed to extend kindness and hope for people to grow when they’ve messed up? It’s just very weird y’all are okay with people being harsh but not with them being kind.
Its up to him to decide if he wants to leave his gf or not. You can ask him, but if he doesn't want to leave his gf, then no.