Personal therapy. Call the number on the back of your insurance card. You will need support while you build yourself back up, and get you and your 2 year old daughter out of danger. There are red flag’s everywhere
I’m the same way, lol. I’m 20F and my fiancé is 19M and I literally can’t sleep without him anymore or I get extremely anxious. I think it’s because I’ve always had this conscious fear that someone is gonna break in and kill me and if I have him there it won’t happen. Totally could be me, but I get where you’re coming from.
I’ve never been the best sleeper, but whenever he’s with me I get my best sleep on those nights, however, when he’s not I’m tossing, turning, and sweating most of the night. This could be because of codependency, but I don’t see it as a bad thing, I see it as a comfort thing and that I know he’s gonna be there to protect me while I sleep.
I know this probably didn’t help, but that’s my reasoning, lol 🙂
This is absolutely something y’all need to discuss.
To play devil’s advocate here you are very lucky in this economy to be a stay at home mom. Many, MANY moms (and single moms) work just to survive. So you could be grateful for your job and step up to pay for a few things at least now.
Also it is so important to be on the same page about finances so if you really don’t want to pay for anything and keep a separate bank account and just sit back and let your husband support you and child 100% then you need to tell him that.
He isn’t going to like to heat it and I don’t really blame him. If you can afford not to work these days it is a blessing. Take it as such.
Otherwise leave him and be forced to work to survive.
You should be worried. Because this is fucking creepy an absolutely unacceptable. You started dating this young girl at 18 and I’m assuming you only waited until then so it would be legal. Since I’m sure you met her well beforehand. Which only makes this situation worse.
How many people need to tell you there is a problem with this before you actually listen?
Did you read the first post? The parents are the whole reason it was a secret to begin with. They are very religious Christians and would possibly disown their daughter if they found out she lost her virginity outside of marriage.
It's most because she is an adult in name only with limited experience. If you keep things clear, this might work. However adults older and wiser than me will get all muddled in the emotion department once sex gets involved. So I'd advise you tread carefully.
He also expects me to do something to the T when he asks me to do something. If I deviate in the slightest way he is mad. Like I’m not a robot dude. Sometimes I think “oh maybe if we do it like this it could be better/fast/cheaper/more efficient”. One time he yelled at me because I miscounted some money he asked me to count. Literally lost it.
Religion is usually a system of doctrine and dogma designed to control your behavior and extract money from you. It gives little, takes a lot, and blames you if you feel like it's not working.
Jesus was a man of peace, love, and acceptance. He never built a single church or asked for donations. He never would have excluded anyone, and told countless parables to try and get that point across. His message involved loving your enemy, welcoming strangers, giving freely to all, not judging or gossiping, healing and feeding the needy, and always being kind to others. He would never have been bigoted or homophobic, judgmental or cruel. This was a man who befriended lepers, prostitutes, and criminals, without judgment or reservation. To be a Christian is supposed to involve following his example. He would never have supported throwing someone away because of a disagreement or because they choose a different path in life. If more Christians actually followed Christ you wouldn't see the well deserving animosity they get. As the saying goes, Lord, please save us from your followers.
Personal therapy. Call the number on the back of your insurance card. You will need support while you build yourself back up, and get you and your 2 year old daughter out of danger. There are red flag’s everywhere
I’m the same way, lol. I’m 20F and my fiancé is 19M and I literally can’t sleep without him anymore or I get extremely anxious. I think it’s because I’ve always had this conscious fear that someone is gonna break in and kill me and if I have him there it won’t happen. Totally could be me, but I get where you’re coming from.
I’ve never been the best sleeper, but whenever he’s with me I get my best sleep on those nights, however, when he’s not I’m tossing, turning, and sweating most of the night. This could be because of codependency, but I don’t see it as a bad thing, I see it as a comfort thing and that I know he’s gonna be there to protect me while I sleep.
I know this probably didn’t help, but that’s my reasoning, lol 🙂
This is absolutely something y’all need to discuss.
To play devil’s advocate here you are very lucky in this economy to be a stay at home mom. Many, MANY moms (and single moms) work just to survive. So you could be grateful for your job and step up to pay for a few things at least now.
Also it is so important to be on the same page about finances so if you really don’t want to pay for anything and keep a separate bank account and just sit back and let your husband support you and child 100% then you need to tell him that.
He isn’t going to like to heat it and I don’t really blame him. If you can afford not to work these days it is a blessing. Take it as such.
Otherwise leave him and be forced to work to survive.
Your choice.
Nope, no way, tell him to be sure he has a parachute, it might come in handy.
You should be worried. Because this is fucking creepy an absolutely unacceptable. You started dating this young girl at 18 and I’m assuming you only waited until then so it would be legal. Since I’m sure you met her well beforehand. Which only makes this situation worse.
How many people need to tell you there is a problem with this before you actually listen?
She cant even drink yet, she’s literally a child. You are dating a child. You are likely having sex with a child. Creepazoid
That’s quite a leap.
Did you read the first post? The parents are the whole reason it was a secret to begin with. They are very religious Christians and would possibly disown their daughter if they found out she lost her virginity outside of marriage.
She got Andrea Tate'd
Sounds like a 15 year old wrote this. God I hope so.
That's the thing with little lies, it's just practice for the big lies.
Finally, a rational response
It's most because she is an adult in name only with limited experience. If you keep things clear, this might work. However adults older and wiser than me will get all muddled in the emotion department once sex gets involved. So I'd advise you tread carefully.
I am so sorry that was your reality. You are so not alone.
He also expects me to do something to the T when he asks me to do something. If I deviate in the slightest way he is mad. Like I’m not a robot dude. Sometimes I think “oh maybe if we do it like this it could be better/fast/cheaper/more efficient”. One time he yelled at me because I miscounted some money he asked me to count. Literally lost it.
Seriously. I can’t keep up with all of these abbreviations people use these days. I thought her fiancé was a district attorney for this whole post.
Religion is usually a system of doctrine and dogma designed to control your behavior and extract money from you. It gives little, takes a lot, and blames you if you feel like it's not working.
Jesus was a man of peace, love, and acceptance. He never built a single church or asked for donations. He never would have excluded anyone, and told countless parables to try and get that point across. His message involved loving your enemy, welcoming strangers, giving freely to all, not judging or gossiping, healing and feeding the needy, and always being kind to others. He would never have been bigoted or homophobic, judgmental or cruel. This was a man who befriended lepers, prostitutes, and criminals, without judgment or reservation. To be a Christian is supposed to involve following his example. He would never have supported throwing someone away because of a disagreement or because they choose a different path in life. If more Christians actually followed Christ you wouldn't see the well deserving animosity they get. As the saying goes, Lord, please save us from your followers.