“I was in a little bit of pain and quickly got him off of me, he felt it was abrupt”
She felt what she alludeds to as discomfort after she came and didn’t”try” but she quickly got her partner off of her. You really don’t see where that could illicit a wtf reaction from said partner? It doesn’t seem like she really communicated well if at all what was happening and she didn’t bother wanting to continue in other ways thereafter.
Guarantee you if it was reversed and he stopped because he felt discomfort after he came and she hadn’t gotten hers, EVERYBODY,not just women, would be chastising him because he didn’t get her off or tried to using his hands or mouth or whatever afterwards and only cared about his own orgasm.
My buddy has a bitter ex.. Because he broke up with her. And she has borderline personality disorder. She came up with a lot of crazy stories that aren't true.
Wow! Very strange! If I can put myself in your husbands shoes, the only reason I would have had to something like would be to let her know that I am sexually interested in her. I don't know what you should do but you are absolutely right that the situation crossed every boundary. Good luck!
Definitely, especially if you want this relationship to go the distance, your 28 years old and are being extremely patient but if you continue this path for the next 10 years if you haven’t worked yourself to death by then, then you may find yourself very resentful and very lonely in your relationship and like you have wasted the last 10/15 years of your life. I understand not wanting to hurt your gf especially when she has depression but are you really prepared to spend the next few years feeling like this?
Even as a guy. This is just gross. You can tell he's not doing shit as a father cuz if he was he would be too tired as a parent from taking care of a newborn to have sex the first few weeks anyways.
Honestly, you don’t even need the text in the post. The title alone is reason enough to end things. If you can’t see a future with someone you should end it and find someone that you can see a future with. 8 years is a long time but it wasn’t a waste of time. You learned and gained life experience.
Also this just screams that “Sarah” is WILDLY insecure in her marriage still.
After all, if he cheated with her while he was married, he'll do it to her one day, too. Hope she has fun wondering every day if today is that day ?
No contact is needed with either your “father” or his future, second ex-wife. If family members try to run interference, shut them down and put up a boundary – if they violate it, you should be ready to distance yourself from them too.
Well done you for putting your future family and their mental well-being first.
I do. My best friend was just cheated on by her partner of 10 years from someone live!. I’m a bit more sensitive than usual and this is something out of ordinary. Generally not a hit Instagram person but then again my husband doesn’t generally follow and interact with younger women I don’t know.
“I was in a little bit of pain and quickly got him off of me, he felt it was abrupt”
She felt what she alludeds to as discomfort after she came and didn’t”try” but she quickly got her partner off of her. You really don’t see where that could illicit a wtf reaction from said partner? It doesn’t seem like she really communicated well if at all what was happening and she didn’t bother wanting to continue in other ways thereafter.
Guarantee you if it was reversed and he stopped because he felt discomfort after he came and she hadn’t gotten hers, EVERYBODY,not just women, would be chastising him because he didn’t get her off or tried to using his hands or mouth or whatever afterwards and only cared about his own orgasm.
Ok. From your posts and your reply, it looks like what you're really after is validation.
I have a bitter ex because I came out as trans.
Reasons ain't always good.
My buddy has a bitter ex.. Because he broke up with her. And she has borderline personality disorder. She came up with a lot of crazy stories that aren't true.
Not everyone who is accused is guilty.
Wow. Not cool on his part. I always tried my best to be there for my ex gf when she was having a breakdown.
Tell him that you understand he may need some space to sort himself out, but days of no communication are not acceptable.
Wow! Very strange! If I can put myself in your husbands shoes, the only reason I would have had to something like would be to let her know that I am sexually interested in her. I don't know what you should do but you are absolutely right that the situation crossed every boundary. Good luck!
Just cut this dude out of your life and save yourself the effort. You seem like you want the drama though, so whatever.
Definitely, especially if you want this relationship to go the distance, your 28 years old and are being extremely patient but if you continue this path for the next 10 years if you haven’t worked yourself to death by then, then you may find yourself very resentful and very lonely in your relationship and like you have wasted the last 10/15 years of your life. I understand not wanting to hurt your gf especially when she has depression but are you really prepared to spend the next few years feeling like this?
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Took me 14 seconds to get this joke. Then I did LOL naked.
Even as a guy. This is just gross. You can tell he's not doing shit as a father cuz if he was he would be too tired as a parent from taking care of a newborn to have sex the first few weeks anyways.
Honestly, you don’t even need the text in the post. The title alone is reason enough to end things. If you can’t see a future with someone you should end it and find someone that you can see a future with. 8 years is a long time but it wasn’t a waste of time. You learned and gained life experience.
I wouldn’t marry him. He’s clearly not over her
it does. it just mean you cares.
Also this just screams that “Sarah” is WILDLY insecure in her marriage still.
After all, if he cheated with her while he was married, he'll do it to her one day, too. Hope she has fun wondering every day if today is that day ?
No contact is needed with either your “father” or his future, second ex-wife. If family members try to run interference, shut them down and put up a boundary – if they violate it, you should be ready to distance yourself from them too.
Well done you for putting your future family and their mental well-being first.
I do. My best friend was just cheated on by her partner of 10 years from someone live!. I’m a bit more sensitive than usual and this is something out of ordinary. Generally not a hit Instagram person but then again my husband doesn’t generally follow and interact with younger women I don’t know.