I mean she cheated on you while you were in the next room. Who's to say what else she has done or would do out of secret, better yet while you're not around.
You lied to your son and allowed your lies to destroy his relationship with his Dad. You're beyond selfish. You didn't need your ex's permission to tell your son you cheated.
You made your ex the bad guy, so your son would have a good relationship with you. Didn't matter to you that it hurt your ex. You didn't want to face the consequences of your actions.
Your son now has to process that not only were you the cheater, but you lied to him for years, allowed him to blame his Dad for cheating and destroying the family, when he didn't do anything wrong. Hopefully he and your ex can repair their relationship.
Right?? I thought maybe this was AITA for a minute.
I mean she cheated on you while you were in the next room. Who's to say what else she has done or would do out of secret, better yet while you're not around.
One word, alimony. Get your daughter situated. He can choose whether to see her.
Romantic take on it: plan a weekend away and tell her about it by gifting some sexy lingerie, either a note saying you'd love to see her wearing it
You lied to your son and allowed your lies to destroy his relationship with his Dad. You're beyond selfish. You didn't need your ex's permission to tell your son you cheated.
You made your ex the bad guy, so your son would have a good relationship with you. Didn't matter to you that it hurt your ex. You didn't want to face the consequences of your actions.
Your son now has to process that not only were you the cheater, but you lied to him for years, allowed him to blame his Dad for cheating and destroying the family, when he didn't do anything wrong. Hopefully he and your ex can repair their relationship.
Yeah go ahead and hit him hot. He needs a wake up call.