Ups and downs in a relationship ARE normal. Your partner being a POS to you because he wants a conventionally pretty partner IS NOT. He’s abusive and just because he isn’t ALWAYS abusive doesn’t mean that’s not what it is
Tough tittys~ this is one choice that will forever be 50/50. He is immature. No one is at fault for whatever gender someone conceives. Just be happy if you were wanting a pregnancy to begin with and hope it's a happy, healthy pregnancy/labor at that. He is 30 years old, and surely he has lived a long enough life to know how that works by now. Sure, you can want for one gender or the other, but to outright not want the baby because it's a female and being down and distant over it? He has a lot of growing up to do and fast.
I socialise on-line while playing video games but it doesn't take the same energy.
I think you are fundimentally just not grasping the difference in energy it takes to be on a voice call while playing a game vs being out in public with a lot of noise and people you don't know while trying to socialise.
My husband pays $600+ a month for 2 kids.
Ups and downs in a relationship ARE normal. Your partner being a POS to you because he wants a conventionally pretty partner IS NOT. He’s abusive and just because he isn’t ALWAYS abusive doesn’t mean that’s not what it is
Tough tittys~ this is one choice that will forever be 50/50. He is immature. No one is at fault for whatever gender someone conceives. Just be happy if you were wanting a pregnancy to begin with and hope it's a happy, healthy pregnancy/labor at that. He is 30 years old, and surely he has lived a long enough life to know how that works by now. Sure, you can want for one gender or the other, but to outright not want the baby because it's a female and being down and distant over it? He has a lot of growing up to do and fast.
An unbiased test is your best weapon.
I socialise on-line while playing video games but it doesn't take the same energy.
I think you are fundimentally just not grasping the difference in energy it takes to be on a voice call while playing a game vs being out in public with a lot of noise and people you don't know while trying to socialise.