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I've been trying to get him to talk to someone for years. He's very “traditional” in some senses and won't admit he needs the help. I can't really be his counsellor when I'm sure I'm a part of his problems. What wife isn't? ?
He’s the one not respecting you, or your body. Or the things you’ve gone through for him. Please do not have children with this man and find a therapist for yourself. Alone.
I mean he’d have to be a crazy sick fuck to show you the earring and then offer devices. I’m not saying it’s impossible but this dude is really working on another level on the 1% chance he did cheat.
Thats really nice! I read that she is in pain when having sex. I guess if she is having physiological pain and it isn’t like a mental issue of her being sad or anything then she should see someone about that.
If you love her at the end of the day 2 weeks is nothing. The fact that you’re counting days is an amber flag for me. The woman you want to be with forever, it shouldn’t matter.
What would happen if she was in an accident and had to be in a hospital for a long time? Would you be counting?
Honestly whatever is going on with her or your relationship is your business, it’s up to you to communicate and find out what’s going on with her ask her if she’s ok ask her if there’s anything you can do to make her day. Do small things to make her happy. You’re young, it’s hard to not focus on the sex but youre going to just have to relax on that. 2 weeks is not a long time and you went many years not having sex with her so what’s 2 weeks to you now?
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I've been trying to get him to talk to someone for years. He's very “traditional” in some senses and won't admit he needs the help. I can't really be his counsellor when I'm sure I'm a part of his problems. What wife isn't? ?
Job?
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I have no excuse for how long it's taken for me to reply to this, but thank you!
Babies are not bandaids.
He’s the one not respecting you, or your body. Or the things you’ve gone through for him. Please do not have children with this man and find a therapist for yourself. Alone.
I mean he’d have to be a crazy sick fuck to show you the earring and then offer devices. I’m not saying it’s impossible but this dude is really working on another level on the 1% chance he did cheat.
He is going to escalate to physical violence, girl. This is just the beginning. Run.
The average person has no frame of reference for what residency truly entails.
Thats really nice! I read that she is in pain when having sex. I guess if she is having physiological pain and it isn’t like a mental issue of her being sad or anything then she should see someone about that.
If you love her at the end of the day 2 weeks is nothing. The fact that you’re counting days is an amber flag for me. The woman you want to be with forever, it shouldn’t matter.
What would happen if she was in an accident and had to be in a hospital for a long time? Would you be counting?
Honestly whatever is going on with her or your relationship is your business, it’s up to you to communicate and find out what’s going on with her ask her if she’s ok ask her if there’s anything you can do to make her day. Do small things to make her happy. You’re young, it’s hard to not focus on the sex but youre going to just have to relax on that. 2 weeks is not a long time and you went many years not having sex with her so what’s 2 weeks to you now?