This needs to be higher. It’s been two years and the behavior is on going. How much more time does OP want to waste waiting for this guy to change? I always want to give ppl the benefit of the doubt but I feel like 2 years is plenty of time…
He is the toxic person. He will make your life hell. Leave him and move on to someone who does self reflection, thinks before acting and generally acts like a decent human being.
So your hookup is friends with people you know? And what? You want to dictate who they can talk to? I'm confused. You're with them for sex and nothing more. If they want to hang out with other people they can.
OP I suggest you make money decisions based on financial facts not EMOTION.
What are the repayment terms to the brother? His interest rate? His repayment period? Are they better or worse than the bank?
If the bank loans you $150k for 30 years it costs you $1003 per month. If the brother loans you $150k at 2.5% it’s $593 per month, if he doesn’t charge you interest it’s $417 a month.
What’s your contribution to the down payment?
Many economists say this is one of the worst times to buy a house in decades. The more cash you can put in the better.
Even if someone is unsure or closeted, it is rude, immature, and inappropriate to push them to come out like that. It is a personal journey that others shouldnt help with unless you ask (like many things outside of sexuality). Your friend is being shitty and seriously sit down and talk to her. If she says it isn’t a big deal, turn things around and ask how she’d feel if you asked over and over if she’s REALLY bisexual, if you said “that outfit looks pretty straight, are you sure?”. All sexualities should be respected.
This needs to be higher. It’s been two years and the behavior is on going. How much more time does OP want to waste waiting for this guy to change? I always want to give ppl the benefit of the doubt but I feel like 2 years is plenty of time…
He is the toxic person. He will make your life hell. Leave him and move on to someone who does self reflection, thinks before acting and generally acts like a decent human being.
Once he sees those divorce papers there will be no doubt in his mind you definitely don't want to baby trap him
So your hookup is friends with people you know? And what? You want to dictate who they can talk to? I'm confused. You're with them for sex and nothing more. If they want to hang out with other people they can.
You know what's happening. The decision you have to make is whether you online with a cheater or you walk away from a cheater. He will never stop.
OP I suggest you make money decisions based on financial facts not EMOTION.
What are the repayment terms to the brother? His interest rate? His repayment period? Are they better or worse than the bank?
If the bank loans you $150k for 30 years it costs you $1003 per month. If the brother loans you $150k at 2.5% it’s $593 per month, if he doesn’t charge you interest it’s $417 a month.
What’s your contribution to the down payment?
Many economists say this is one of the worst times to buy a house in decades. The more cash you can put in the better.
I seem to remember something about “in sickness and in health.” Hmm.
Even if someone is unsure or closeted, it is rude, immature, and inappropriate to push them to come out like that. It is a personal journey that others shouldnt help with unless you ask (like many things outside of sexuality). Your friend is being shitty and seriously sit down and talk to her. If she says it isn’t a big deal, turn things around and ask how she’d feel if you asked over and over if she’s REALLY bisexual, if you said “that outfit looks pretty straight, are you sure?”. All sexualities should be respected.