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I know that is mom and all but…fuck her! She made her choice. Tell her to meet up with Brad.
She'd be my ex after that. That's how I'd handle the situation.
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You dodged a missile on that one be she broke up with you. Gather your friends and go have a drink and celebrate
Every form of refuge has its price. What price are YOU willing to pay? You put a big emphasis in that he's around men that are wealthy enough to have “sugarbabies” and he's said he may cheat on you after he marries you…Im sorry but an “open relationship” is open to both parties not just one…it's been 5 yrs and he still hasn't married you. This is insight to your future…so dont ignore it. Who you marry is the most important decision you'll ever make so choose wisely.
Good. Sounds like your friend is giving good advice.
That means I can move to the relationship. I don't recommend you have another relationship with a man until your son is 18 and out of the house. Look at the turmoil in his life up to now. He won't have a father if the court does its job. And the more people you bring into his life and leave him will have a traumatic effect on his life. You can look at the exceptions, but I would not base any advice on a rare exception.
Put your child ahead of your desires and desire for him to have a safe life without further turmoil.
When he is 18 and out, you can date again. And at that time, I highly suspect you will have your life together and make wise choices. Right?
Never forget what is the purpose of dating: to find someone compatible to make a life-long commitment. Choose wisely.
You actually thought experimenting & unfaithful are interchangeable ????????
It’s actually easier to have a calm and rational talk about counseling while there is no argument ongoing. Use last night as a starting point and how his own behavior is what’s alienating you from him much more than any outside influence. Tell him you love him and want to have a healthy and balanced relationship with him. In order to achieve that, you think it would be helpful to seek individual and down the line possibly couples counseling.
Right now, what you have doesn’t sound healthy or balanced for either of you. Although you seem to suffer most under his habits of comparison but also his controlling behavior and use of emotional manipulation. If he isn’t willing to address these issues and actively work on bettering himself, then I don’t know how you can stand a life of this behavior without loosing yourself in the process.
They don’t sound like friends to me. Your ex and your ex friend are both gross and the fact that they would rather hurt you and keep them around when they are the ones in the wrong says a lot about your “friends.” I wouldn’t even want those kind of people around me much less if the victim of their actions was my friend. You need a new group of friends, sounds like these people don’t care much about you.
What she did is terrible. On the other hand, it sounds like the last 3 years have been very good. Ten years ago, in my son's 7th year of marriage, his wife had a very lengthy affair with her boss. Long story short, they reconciled and have a terrific marriage. Once she awoke from affair fog, she begged forgiveness. He put together a plan with a number of unnegotiable consequences she had to endure for Jim to attempt reconcilliation. A polygraph and post-nuptial were two of the demands. It is not my position to judge. If you do decide to reconcile, I have a 2 page write-up of my son's story. It has helped several Redditors to reconcile. If interested, send me a chat request, and I will send it to you. I think you 2 have a good chance of working through this.
At the end of the day, you only know what you know. Logically, you should have ended things early in knowing you were fundamentally incompatible, but I realize that's a moot point. Ultimately, you realized you were miserable. You voiced it and he brushed you off.
As it continues, this isn't about you being on a work trip. It's great that it made him start to put things into perspective, but why did that lead to a break up? That really doesn't make much sense, so would you be able to add context there? The sequence of events just seems off, but maybe I'm reading something wrong.
Either way, you then break up and he opens up about all of his mistakes and realizations. But why now? Where was this at any point over three years? Also, it's one thing to realize you've been a shitty partner after a breakup; it's a completely different thing to change your fundamental beliefs on marriage and children. A breakup shouldn't logically make someone decide they now feel the exact opposite of something they felt their entire life. That's what would be most concerning to me from your perspective.
To tie this all back to my original point when saying you only know what you know; you know what you experienced over three years. You hold resentment over that, and it's not unreasonable that you do. So even if he truly has magically changed entirely (which you can't know), does that make you forget how unhappy you were and how you were treated? Obviously it's not going to. You can decide it's too little too late and he had a long time to do and say this. So that's the ex.
Now let's talk about the new guy. To back up, how long have you been abroad? Regardless, you need to realize that your ex and the new guy are unrelated entities, in that, you don't make your decision to pursue one based on the other.
You're currently in the honeymoon period with this new guy, where you're wearing rose colored glasses and it's all sunshine and rainbows. You also didn't say whether or not you were actually romantically involved, so you'll have to confirm. You don't know what this is, and there's also a distance factor.
The problem here that I'm concerned about is that I'm worried you're questioning where it's going as a reason to end things and reconcile with your ex. Why? If the new guy isn't right for you, does that change the situation with your ex? No, it does not. That's why I'm saying to treat them as separate entities. If you want to pursue the new guy, pursue the new guy. But do it because it makes sense and you're over your ex. If you don't think it'll work, then that doesn't mean the other option is to go back. There's another option; you can be with neither of them. They can both be wrong for you and you can take time to look for someone right for you. Good luck.
Most people get the hint when they don't get a text …
I mean he does because she’s not asking if he’s a jerk she’s asking if he’s a rapist. To that I say it’s possible it’s on purpose but also more likely that it’s not.
He gained no satisfaction out of her tipping over in pain and ending sex immediately. This would be a stupid thing to do. So unless he has an IQ of 10 I doubt it was on purpose. An incredibly selfish person (which I believe he is) knows this.
You're being manipulated. Go find a better caliber woman who doesn't believe in cheating.