Some people truly do look “young”. When I managed a bar, I had one regular that looked 16. Not joking at all. I carded him the first few times. He was 34. I always made sure he had his ID on him as the cops came in often. The new ones always made a bee line for this guy. He hated that he looked so young.
if you want kids you are in a hurry. You know what the options are. I'm sorry for you. However – the love for one's kids never ever fades, I know what I would chose.
Have you asked him if he physically cheated with this person? Please get an STD test for yourself.
If you want to save your relationship, he needs to go completely NC with this person. Find a new job. Get into both individual and marriage counseling. Block the AP completely. Give you an open phone and technology policy and social media access. He needs to provide you with location sharing.
If you want to leave the relationship, first get a consultation with an attorney for both alimony and child support and to set up a parenting agreement. Get an STD test. Get yourself into individual counseling to help you heal.
I am sorry OP that you are in this positive, I send you a big hug and my best wishes for you.
Honestly I wouldn’t speak to any of your family. They ALL betrayed you. They ALL chose a cheater and a scum bag girl over their own daughter and sister, that’s disgusting no matter which way they try to twist it.
Not a single one of them deserves a relationship with you, your husband or your kids. That privilege is reserved for family and friends, and they’ve all proven they are neither.
I suggested he takes SSRI limiters to lower his sex drive a little bit but he wont listen
Some people truly do look “young”. When I managed a bar, I had one regular that looked 16. Not joking at all. I carded him the first few times. He was 34. I always made sure he had his ID on him as the cops came in often. The new ones always made a bee line for this guy. He hated that he looked so young.
if you want kids you are in a hurry. You know what the options are. I'm sorry for you. However – the love for one's kids never ever fades, I know what I would chose.
”Won’t bother with details.”
Typically you get out what you out in. Without any context, you’ll only get generic commentary. “It’s over when it’s over.”
Your husband is disgusting
Just make a decision in your heart that it’s a lie.
She lied.
That’s it.
Then choose to crush any future thoughts about it.
Have you asked him if he physically cheated with this person? Please get an STD test for yourself.
If you want to save your relationship, he needs to go completely NC with this person. Find a new job. Get into both individual and marriage counseling. Block the AP completely. Give you an open phone and technology policy and social media access. He needs to provide you with location sharing.
If you want to leave the relationship, first get a consultation with an attorney for both alimony and child support and to set up a parenting agreement. Get an STD test. Get yourself into individual counseling to help you heal.
I am sorry OP that you are in this positive, I send you a big hug and my best wishes for you.
Honestly I wouldn’t speak to any of your family. They ALL betrayed you. They ALL chose a cheater and a scum bag girl over their own daughter and sister, that’s disgusting no matter which way they try to twist it.
Not a single one of them deserves a relationship with you, your husband or your kids. That privilege is reserved for family and friends, and they’ve all proven they are neither.
Yeah don’t have kids with her.