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You’ve had pots of answers purely on the sex aspect( I will add a pillow under your butt, or “doggy style “ work better. ) complimenting him; Don’t tell him it’s ridiculous! seriously though Tell him he has a gorgeous dick. Tell him you don’t know why, but you’re drawn to it. Tell him you’re intimidated by it’s size but you really want to work it out because you love him
So as one trans man to another, its best if you leave. For both of you.
I would also keep in mind that your mind could change, again. You mention being pre-T and some dudes feel better about their bottom dysphoria post-T, maybe then you wont want surgery. Or maybe you will. You still have so much time to determine these things.
But your partner doesnt like dicks. Does he like MEN at all? Who is to say he wont leave if you start T and your clitoris grows in size?
Either way, you gotta do whats best for you. Most partners are temporary in our lives but your body is stuck with you till death, might as well make it one you like and not compromise for someone who may not be around forever?
Then an hr later we talked privately about it and she’s not sorry, she’s not apologizing , She’s right i’m wrong, then starts to blame me for other bullshit things we’ve argued about in the past and that we’re dead and gone already. Just like bringing something up so I can be at blame for SOMETHING. How do I help her see that she disrespected me? I feel disrespected as hell.
Why do you think she will listen to what you say?
Don't ignore the huge red flag. She went behind your back, hid your dog's medication, she didn't apologise. Why bother?
Please take this seriously, and postpone your wedding until you have had enough time to begin working on this issue and to see genuine progress
I speak from experience. I married the person I'd been dating for 10 years when I was in my mid-20s, and even by the time we got married, exactly what you're describing had happened for us. Less and less sex, him unable to keep it up, me feeling terrible and frustrated, me eventually becoming averse to sex
Just like you're describing, he was my best friend, my everything. But the truth is, when you meet someone when you're really young, and you haven't dated anyone else for almost a decade, of course that person feels like everything to you. You haven't spent that past 7 years nourishing and developing any other relationship in the same way
The fact is, you might indeed be happier with someone whose libido matches yours better. I understand that you want to try to make things work with your fiance, but as someone who didn't leave until I was in my 40s, and who missed out on not just years but literal decades of amazing sex I could have been having, please make sure that you find out whether or not you can fix things with him before you marry him
Whether it's a physical ailment, or anxiety, or whatever, if he can't change, you will grow to resent him more overtime. Telling you that he's open to working on it is not enough. You need to actually see that change is possible before you commit the rest of your life to this relationship
And if you don't see that change, please trust that this is not a relationship you want to stay in. It's a really great sign that you're even asking this question. When I was getting married in my mid 20s, I was too afraid of shaking up my life to admit that things weren't great. But they weren't. And it took me an additional 20 years to realize it. Don't be me
Brother you need to start growing a spine and respect yourself. Dump the bitch ASAP and figure out what more you need to do to start having self respect.
You’ve had pots of answers purely on the sex aspect( I will add a pillow under your butt, or “doggy style “ work better. ) complimenting him; Don’t tell him it’s ridiculous! seriously though Tell him he has a gorgeous dick. Tell him you don’t know why, but you’re drawn to it. Tell him you’re intimidated by it’s size but you really want to work it out because you love him
Yeah, sure.
Feee world tho. Everyone can choose to suck a dirty dick and everyone can choose not to. Op's gf clearly chose the latter.
So as one trans man to another, its best if you leave. For both of you.
I would also keep in mind that your mind could change, again. You mention being pre-T and some dudes feel better about their bottom dysphoria post-T, maybe then you wont want surgery. Or maybe you will. You still have so much time to determine these things.
But your partner doesnt like dicks. Does he like MEN at all? Who is to say he wont leave if you start T and your clitoris grows in size?
Either way, you gotta do whats best for you. Most partners are temporary in our lives but your body is stuck with you till death, might as well make it one you like and not compromise for someone who may not be around forever?
If he's really the one for you he won't ask you to jeopardise your future or career goals. He'd find a way to make both work.
That's what I'm saying. He has ED, and he's blaming you for it. That's REALLY shitty.
Your definitely right, thank you, this is why I love Reddit
Then an hr later we talked privately about it and she’s not sorry, she’s not apologizing , She’s right i’m wrong, then starts to blame me for other bullshit things we’ve argued about in the past and that we’re dead and gone already. Just like bringing something up so I can be at blame for SOMETHING. How do I help her see that she disrespected me? I feel disrespected as hell.
Why do you think she will listen to what you say?
Don't ignore the huge red flag. She went behind your back, hid your dog's medication, she didn't apologise. Why bother?
Please take this seriously, and postpone your wedding until you have had enough time to begin working on this issue and to see genuine progress
I speak from experience. I married the person I'd been dating for 10 years when I was in my mid-20s, and even by the time we got married, exactly what you're describing had happened for us. Less and less sex, him unable to keep it up, me feeling terrible and frustrated, me eventually becoming averse to sex
Just like you're describing, he was my best friend, my everything. But the truth is, when you meet someone when you're really young, and you haven't dated anyone else for almost a decade, of course that person feels like everything to you. You haven't spent that past 7 years nourishing and developing any other relationship in the same way
The fact is, you might indeed be happier with someone whose libido matches yours better. I understand that you want to try to make things work with your fiance, but as someone who didn't leave until I was in my 40s, and who missed out on not just years but literal decades of amazing sex I could have been having, please make sure that you find out whether or not you can fix things with him before you marry him
Whether it's a physical ailment, or anxiety, or whatever, if he can't change, you will grow to resent him more overtime. Telling you that he's open to working on it is not enough. You need to actually see that change is possible before you commit the rest of your life to this relationship
And if you don't see that change, please trust that this is not a relationship you want to stay in. It's a really great sign that you're even asking this question. When I was getting married in my mid 20s, I was too afraid of shaking up my life to admit that things weren't great. But they weren't. And it took me an additional 20 years to realize it. Don't be me
Brother you need to start growing a spine and respect yourself. Dump the bitch ASAP and figure out what more you need to do to start having self respect.