1 there's obviously more to this story. But. 2 that more doesn't matter. Leave his ass. For good if there's ever been another indication of violence. Until he apologizes profusely and makes up for it if not
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At first while reading the post, I was mentally preparing a comment about how in toxic families, even the golden child goes experiences trauma and it might be healthy for recovery for both of them for OP to reconnect and repair. (for a literal ELI5 version of the “golden child” harm see the character Isabella in Encanto). The summary of the email seemed promising!
Then I got to the “still acting like a little bitch” comment and mentally deleted it all. If big brother actually recognized the harm he caused her, he would never have said something like that. It gives the email some “abuser who has gone to therapy and weaponizes the tools and concepts they learned there” vibes.
This is beyond having nothing to hide. Just talking to the AP open up old wounds. The AP cannot be in your life.
There is no reason why the AP should have reached out to you. He knows that he had an affair to you. His doing so shows that he has regards for your marriage, yourself or your husband.
Understand that 64 is much younger than you realize. You will probably have a permanent addition to your nuclear family. If your fiance had a child it's a given that they're a packaged deal but a parent? Even if they're the easiest person in the world to on-line with you need to be 100% sure this is the life you want.
He was the past and can stay there.
1 there's obviously more to this story. But. 2 that more doesn't matter. Leave his ass. For good if there's ever been another indication of violence. Until he apologizes profusely and makes up for it if not
You can do this.. sending you positive vibes. Good luck.
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Can you track down the other possible dad? It would be better to DNA test him, if you can.
Agreed.
At first while reading the post, I was mentally preparing a comment about how in toxic families, even the golden child goes experiences trauma and it might be healthy for recovery for both of them for OP to reconnect and repair. (for a literal ELI5 version of the “golden child” harm see the character Isabella in Encanto). The summary of the email seemed promising!
Then I got to the “still acting like a little bitch” comment and mentally deleted it all. If big brother actually recognized the harm he caused her, he would never have said something like that. It gives the email some “abuser who has gone to therapy and weaponizes the tools and concepts they learned there” vibes.
Stay far away.
This is beyond having nothing to hide. Just talking to the AP open up old wounds. The AP cannot be in your life.
There is no reason why the AP should have reached out to you. He knows that he had an affair to you. His doing so shows that he has regards for your marriage, yourself or your husband.
If I was you I woud not be going to that event.
What else is she going to use your card for? Ditch this gold digger's ass
Understand that 64 is much younger than you realize. You will probably have a permanent addition to your nuclear family. If your fiance had a child it's a given that they're a packaged deal but a parent? Even if they're the easiest person in the world to on-line with you need to be 100% sure this is the life you want.