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Date: October 16, 2022
Man up dude!!! So get your ass motivated and make more money. No she should not be with you for just money but I can tell you this. A Girls value is how pretty she is and guys value is how dominant and powerful he is AKA “money” Nothing fair about it I agree but it's survival at caveman level still In our DNA. Don't play the victim card. Do something about it.
What if he caught a cold by coincidence? I know they’re going around. The dog could have potentially aggravated his cold symptoms/potential infection.
He’s ignoring you unless he wants things out of you. That’s got to do bad things to your self-esteem.
Please don’t stay with him. For your own sake.
She broke it off to have sex with another guy and then decided she wanted you back. Sorry but no, don’t allow yourself to be treated like that.
YAA, aka “you’re an asshole” for bringing this to Reddit, as if you’re asking if your wife setting a boundary about not being yelled and sworn at by her husband is toxic.
No. That is not okay. Some people grew up with it, didn’t know any better, but it is not okay. Yelling can happen sometimes, and that can indicate you might need help navigating disagreements, but swearing is never okay. Are you her partner? Swearing completely crossing the boundary between partners vs the situation and partner vs partner. You need to change the dynamic. Tackle issues as your partner and you vs the problem, not vs each other.
If you were doing all your work, then why is he complaining about all the mess in the house and you not even being properly dressed? He shouldn't be having to come back home to a house full of mess etc when he's supporting all of you. Or do you expect him to start tidying up all the clutter after he's come home?
“He’s brought in over $100,000 in a one month period because of me”- Um. no. He's brought in a 6 figure salary because of his damn hard work. You aren't doing his job for him! You don't get to claim his naked work like that.
“when I’m experiencing sickness in pregnancy and postpartum with a newborn”
Again, you're choosing to have these kids, so you need to take responsibility for them. He didn't force you to have babies and be a stay at home mum (this was your choice).
If you are struggling, then you need to be proactive about sorting out your own problems. For example, speak to a doctor about your postpartum, and get a cleaner to help out a bit. But its not fair to expect him to start tidying & childminding etc when he's already supporting the lot of you and you're unemployed. You have significantly more time on your hands, if he starts doing your jobs for you, then where does he get any time to unwind?
I do think you're living in a bubble. What exactly do you think is going to happen if you choose the single life in all this? Because I think there are no guys out there that'd want to look after an adult women whose unemployed with 4 kids and expects to be taken care of on a massive salary.
I think maybe you should be a bit more grateful, be a bit more proactive about sorting your own problems out and be VEEERY careful about sabotaguing the marriage you've got right now.
This was really helpful, thank you.
This… definitely sounds illegal. This is disgusting that he would do that knowing how you feel, put your health at risk because he is selfish and apparently a child isn’t good enough if your body doesn’t suffer from it?? I would never trust him again. This is truly vile. He does not give a shit about how you feel, or your wellbeing, this much is clear.
He doesn’t care that he’s fucking with your hormonal balance, the consequences that happen to your body when you become pregnant, and even without considering the actual health factors, he just doesn’t give a shit about what you personally want in the first place.
And it wouldn’t be his problem to deal with. It’s not his body that would carry the child, it’s yours. He never even tried to consider or understand your fears or wants, because simply put they are problems he would never have to deal with any way. He is selfish, disregarding you, your health, your wants, cares, needs, and trust because…. He would rather you sacrifice your body?? Secretly, without your knowledge or consent??
Imagine if you were to trick him, fuck his hormones up by switching out medicine, to implant something in his body he has explicitly stated he doesn’t want in there?? It seems like he just sees your body as a vessel to get something he wants out of it. This is something a selfish psychopath does, not someone who loves and cares about you.
Seriously. Take a step back and think about if this weren’t your husband. If you heard your mother, sister, or friend tell you that someone did this to them, what would your reaction be? Furious? Scared for their safety? How would your friends and family feel if they found out he did this to you?
He did not have your best intentions in mind. He selfishly would sacrifice you if it meant he gets what he wants. Could you imagine raising a child with someone who could do that to you? What would you tell your child, possibly a daughter? Daddy forced me to get pregnant with you? Daddy doesn’t give a shit about a woman’s body, health, personal wants, because he sees them as a disposable incubator? If it means he gets what he wants, he will trash your trust, your relationship, your safety? Is this the type of man you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with, possibly bringing children into the world with, whether it be surrogate or adoption, or, I dunno, force you into pregnancy?
Someone who loves, cares, and respects you would not do this to you.
Wth is this comment section? It doesn't matter if what she said was in stress or not because what she said was still said and if this is how she's going to be reacting or behaving then she needs some growing up to do.
Op, you are not wrong for wanting to leave a woman who had no hesitation in minimizing your emotions and also the fact that she told you to go die then.
Reasoning: I immediately got a flashback of how easily my parents say that to each other and I don't like this, I'm triggered by the comment section as well.
Take this as projecting but to me this is a big line crossed and you won't be “forgetting it” or “getting over it” anytime soon or even after a long time. Anytime she's angry you'll remember this.
You can talk to her about this saying:
” I still don't feel comfortable with what happened and what you said and to me it feels like an apology can't easily solve it, please give me some space to think about how to go forward now”.
Then you can think about what you really need and do not listen to most comments saying “stress stress stress” we say stupid stuff but there are consequences for saying those stupid stuff and not just the fact that we say it so we need to tolerate our partners being assholes in this sense.
I'm sorry but i suddenly feel like if genders were changed this would immediately be concluded as an emotionally abusive relationship which seems like it and that op should leave.
Animals cannot be evil. You should see a psychiatrist.
Don't set yourself on fire to keep your partner warm. Walk away. You can part friends now or online in agony until it kills you so much that you are forced to walk away broken and a shell of yourself. I have seen so many people try ENM to keep their partner happy, but the relationships rarely last a year before imploding. If both partners are not 100 % in and excited, it's a no.. just walk away and keep your sanity. This is coming from someone in the ENM lifestyle
How are you interpreting any of what I say like that? I literally beat myself up everyday for how I treated my ex girlfriend. The exact reason I work very hot so I can create a healthy relationship and respect my next partner because I am a human who did make mistakes
You say she’s a friend yet you want to date her. Dude there’s a really good chance she’s just humoring you. You’re the creepy older dude who obviously has a crush on her and she’s too young to have the life experience to deal with it (which is likely a huge part of her attraction to you). I was 23 once. There is a huge difference between 23 and 32 when you’re 23. There were always men on their 30s hanging round when we were in our early 20s. We used to talk about how creepy they were and how we wished they’d leave us alone. We called them “saddos”.
Leaving a relationship with an addict is terribly painful and difficult. Right now you’re putting his addiction ahead of the peace, happiness and safety of yourself and your two children.
Addiction affects the entire family, and you are enabling him to continue this way of life forever, until something terrible happens (because it will.) You cannot control what he does. But you can control what you do.
It’s time to value your and your children’s lives more than you value his. Please I urge you to look into therapy, look into trauma bonding, codependence, and relationships with addicts. You cannot save him at the expense of yourself and your children.
You’re thinking monetarily when you refer to quality of life- but girl, money ain’t everything. I’m the child of an alcoholic whose father could have and should have left far sooner and could have saved myself and my siblings from a terrible amount of abuse. Because of the abuse I witnessed and endured and the behaviors I was taught were “normal” (they weren’t) I was susceptible in adulthood to relationships with alcoholics and addicts- one of whom was constantly trying to get sober, also contacted prostitutes and cheated on me constantly with literal crackheads so he could get drugs— one of them even beat me up in the street because I saw them together after he disappeared on a bender. It’s a miracle I didn’t contract any stds or blood related diseases from him sharing needles. I was stuck so deep into codependency with him, and I loved him immensely. But eventually I realized that I was tired of caring for him over myself. My life revolves around his off and on sobriety. I lost all of my friends. I became physically ill trying to fix him. I decided his life was not worth more effort than my own.
Just think about this. I could be your child when they grow up. A child who learned that love is conditional from her parent, that cheating and secrets are normal and accepted, that drug use and addiction and all the behaviors that come with it are not to be questioned, that I’m not worth trying harder for something better.
Your children are worth it. Show them.