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Date: September 25, 2022
Honestly, this should've been discussed before marriage but as a woman, if I came to be in a relationship where my partner is the main breadwinner, I would have some decency not to even think about dividing the chores 50/50. Your partner works to pay for both of you, I don't care if he works less hours or whatever, he still pays the main share of the house which includes your food, your pills and might I add clothes, personal items…blah blah blah.
If you take it personal and say I'm not his servant or maid then maybe he should've have said the same thing “I'm not her father to pay her pills or her personal stuff”
if I were in your husband's shoes and my wife asked me to do 50/50 of the chores, I'd resent her.
If you want him to do 50/50 then you should pay 50/50 of the house pills and the other stuff, other than that, it's not partnership, it's you using him. I'm sorry but it's the truth.
He works for both of you, and you do the housework for both of you as well, this is partnership.
I agree that he should do more of the housework and this depends on what he pays for the house, if he pays 70% then he should do 30% of the housework, I wouldn't have it any other way if I were in your shoes.
My big takeaway from this is that he's ok with lying to you to get what he wants. I would nope right out of that quick.
Resolving to dissolve their marriage isn't going to change their abusive tendencies, only make the child be more susceptible to it.
Late reply sorry, but I think your comment sums it up pretty well. I do definitely know she went to boot camp, she always talked about it and before she left she talked about her experience 'training' for the army basic training. She sometimes vanishes on me, but she wouldn't try lying an excuse out. However, I too am not sure what to do which is why this is stressful, but it looks like I'm just gonna have to deal with it ig lol. Def gonna have a lot of questions when she comes back, thanks for your time
Happy cake day!
I’ve thought about blocking him – the thing is, I still care about him – and I do think we want the same things, he just hasn’t figured that out (I know how this sounds – I hear myself, I promise ………. Bleh.)
But for real – he wants to finish school and he doesn’t want to be truck driver – he just doesn’t think he can – and it is not my responsibility to build him up, especially since I’m not his GF and don’t know that I want that …
I guess – I don’t want to completely close the door or get in my own way – ya know? …
He hurt me and I’m having a really hot time trusting him again – I’m also dealing with some other pretty big stressors (just moved, no friends, death in the family, fun times) – BLEH. My therapist is also on vacation for the next two weeks – I’m a ball of stress 🙁
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We have this strict communication rule, just like any other couple, . I never realised I had such a hard time communicating until this relationship. Sometimes, I would vent or rant about a certain thing and sometimes, I just want someone to listen.
I don't understand what this means, I'm afraid. What kind of communication rules do you mean? Not something I've used in relationships at all.
It sounds like sometimes you just want sympathy and not solutions, and she is either always offering you solutions or is trying to understand the situation, but her questions are upsetting you. What kind of questions does she ask? Does she invalidate or downplay your experience? Or blame you in some way?
Honestly? Seems clear to me he isn’t interested in being with you, but you don’t take no for an answer so he deflects and tries to drop hints to make you get it without outwardly saying it.
If he wants to break up, you break up. You can’t force him to stay just because you want it.
She needs therapy. She's deep in the FOG. Fear, Obligation, and Guilt. Her parents have control over her and probably have her entire life. Until she gets out of the FOG, she's not ready to get married.
You cant. Also, he is not interested in you that much
so he can “experience life while he’s young”
he is just saying that he doesn’t want to lose me or be without me.
No, he just wants to be able to do whatever the fuck he wants and still have you around to put his dick in.
Dump this dude and experience life while you are young OP, I know that's easier said than done… but you will have a better life without his garbage.
why would he put that at risk for some quick sex?
He is a 20 year old dude. Someone could probably convince him to stick his dick in a lightbulb socket. ?♂️
OP, if you are not down with opening your relationship for him to do these things… DO NOT compromise yourself in this way for his benefit. It always ends in regret and resentment.