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Date: December 22, 2022
I'm doing this for me. If you don't understand that, that's fine.
Read OPs comment history. He is far from innocent!
Do you feel yourself on the path towards loving her? Not everyone loves at the same pace, for some it can take longer to get there but they at least feel themselves heading in that direction.
Of course all the misogynists posting here will say this, but the plural of anecdote is not data. In any case, one merely needs to look at the community of gay men who are very comfortable being friends with one another and don’t believe that it‘s impossible.
I had periods of time when I talked with my partner for hours via calls or messages. Or we could stay together in a call while doing our own stuff. And there were periods where we had like 5-10 messages a day. There's between, and there are extreme opposites, and whatever work for you two is good.
And this is what you have to find out: What works for her?
You already know what you want (which, in my opinion, is a little bit extreme if you ask me. You could expect less time in a call everyday prioritizing a very loooong one once in a while, every few days for example) but now you have to ask her what she wants. What she needs. What will she be able to give. Have you done this already?
Looking into it
I see I see I’m smelling what you’re steppin in and those feelings are 100% valid
My main concern in this story is how unreliable your partner seems to be at holding a job. There's always a convenient reason to quit, give up or try something else. You love him, so you seem to easily go along with his reasons each time. But I wonder if you've ever questioned any of this.
When it concerns marriage and finances, having a partner that is unstable and unreliable is a matter of concern. Not based on income, but his ethical stance on work. If he is hard-working, determined, reliable.. but just had some nude luck with his job opportunities, then that's fine. But just based of what you've written, it doesn't appear he is just unlucky. But that he is an unstable individual.
I'd seriously reconsider my engagement, let alone my relationship with someone like this. And again, it isn't about their pay or lack of opportunities. But about their character and behaviour.
Also yes, take the opportunity you're being offered. If he doesn't like it, he can stay where he is.