Okay just looked at her history. Her communication issues are huge. She also seems to let her OCD and anxiety rule her life. She expects everyone to he able to read her thoughts to know what she is feeling turn gets upset when they can't. She admits she nit picks the hell out of the BF to the point he blows up.
She isn't in the right mental health space to have a healthy relationship. She can't even communicate with her mother well. OP needs to take a relationship break and work on herself.
I had a bf who wanted a MMF threesome and I accidentally mentioned that an old friend of mine would probably do it. It was his fantasy for quite awhile and he wanted me to contact the guy. But the more I sat on it the more I realized I’d probably wreck my friendship AND relationship.
I eventually said no, that I’m uncomfortable, which he eventually respected. I did consider trying to find some stranger jiggalo-type we could just pay but I wasn’t really into the idea to begin with and in situations like this, all parties need to be enthusiastic and willing.
i have to admit that yes, i’ve seen some of these in her. i’ve seen some of each of those, of varying degrees, in her behaviours and words. that’s interesting.. i hadn’t really categorised it in this way before, but i can definitely recognise these in her
She’s made her choice and it’s not you.
Being there for her is not what you are doing. You’re dismissing her insecurities and offering an all or nothing solution.
this happened to me when i was 16. i feel like even if you did have feelings for him, you’re an adult. back off and go to therapy!
Okay just looked at her history. Her communication issues are huge. She also seems to let her OCD and anxiety rule her life. She expects everyone to he able to read her thoughts to know what she is feeling turn gets upset when they can't. She admits she nit picks the hell out of the BF to the point he blows up.
She isn't in the right mental health space to have a healthy relationship. She can't even communicate with her mother well. OP needs to take a relationship break and work on herself.
Do you even want to be in a sexless relationship?
Yeah what, the best friend? No way, Jose.
I had a bf who wanted a MMF threesome and I accidentally mentioned that an old friend of mine would probably do it. It was his fantasy for quite awhile and he wanted me to contact the guy. But the more I sat on it the more I realized I’d probably wreck my friendship AND relationship.
I eventually said no, that I’m uncomfortable, which he eventually respected. I did consider trying to find some stranger jiggalo-type we could just pay but I wasn’t really into the idea to begin with and in situations like this, all parties need to be enthusiastic and willing.
Please don't marry someone who can't stop cheating on you.
i have to admit that yes, i’ve seen some of these in her. i’ve seen some of each of those, of varying degrees, in her behaviours and words. that’s interesting.. i hadn’t really categorised it in this way before, but i can definitely recognise these in her
He does not come across as a doting husband and father.
Do you have somewhere safe to go because this guy sounds like he’ll kill you.