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I experienced something incredibly similar with a 36-year-old guy at 19. He’s using you, and I’m so very sorry. Please find a way out – on-line your life and heal. This is an age where you should be having fun, making friends, and falling in love with people around your age, not getting financially exploited by scummy adult men who know far better. Best of luck.
It has nothing to do with gender. Stop using words without knowing what they mean. I think its the same for men too. I could have at least 20 sexual partner in my life but I wasn’t that easy to get. I only had 3 sexual partners because sex is not supposed to be something what you get in hours, it has something to do with soul connection and find a person attractive not only physical!!! You can’t find a person in 4 hours attractive
There was one conversation we had where we talked about how my ex reached out to me a few months ago. My gf knows about this and knows that we talked. I told her what we talked about (my ex is an addict who has gotten sober and reached out to apologize for all the things she said and did when she was in active addiction) but I didn’t go into detail with her about how it had made me feel. I talked to my friend about this. It was the worst breakup I’d ever been through and was generally a really difficult time in my life for many reasons. It picked at an old wound and dug up a lot of feelings that were really hot. In one of the texts I said “it took everything in me not to go back to her.” This took place in the very beginning of my current relationship and I made the choice to stay with my current gf instead of entertaining the idea of trying again with my ex. My gf told me that reading that made her feel like a second choice and like I would rather be with my ex. I said “but I chose YOU. I suppose I could have tried to pursue things with my ex, but I chose to hang up the phone. I chose you.” Still it really hurt her
I’m very careful with what I say in arguments for this reason. I don’t want to “win” or hurt him in an argument, I just want it resolved so we can move on and be happy. I generally stay calm and he’s the one to start raising his voice at me, cussing etc and now adding in the way he banged his fists/threw the ring/threw his phone down it feels like it’s escalating
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He's 30 years old already. If he doesn't know by now, that is your answer. You can't work through a thing he can't even name. He likes you to hang out with, he doesn't want to marry you. You kind of need to stop now, if only for your child's sake.
Hang out with her one more time. At a restaurant or bar. And send a bunch of texts to that person, while she is next to you. See if she checks her phone. Or gets any notifications.
You could also say something really really nasty about her in the text, to see if she has a reaction to it.
Damn. I'm sorry you and your wife are going through this. Sorry for saying, but her family must all big peices of shit to treat her like that, and her sister seems to purposefully trying to stir shit up. I'm sure you're working in it, but if my wifes family was like that, I wouldn't have anything to do with them. Or be in contact in any way. It's as if they want to sabotage your rwlashionship and bring her down to feel better about themselves because they will never get to her level intellect and brilliance.
Part conjecture and part experience, but it does seem fairly common. Everyone has their own feelings toward this sort of thing, and naturally it will be correlated to how open and “sexual” they are as a person – as well as their comfort level with their partner. That doesn't make them wrong or worthy of being judged for it.
It just sounds like you need to make better friends. Why are you with friends with someone that drags you down?
And are you sure the 2nd friend saw your husband and ex-friend? Make sure you have some proof. She could be right, but she could've just mistaken it. Get evidence.
And it's not too weird for your husband to not see you the same even after proving the allegations to be false. Look into how many people's lives are still ruined after false allegations are proven false.
As we mature, we find out who we are, our values change, and we grow in different directions. Friends who don't mature at the same rate or whose values don't align with ours anymore get left behind, and that is okay. It is good you are recognizing that you and she are no longer a good fit. Distance yourself and move on. You have outgrown this friendship, and that is no ones fault.
I think you have to decide what outcome you want here and then work towards it. If you want him to go to prison, then call a helpline and report to the police. If you want to him stop and want to work on the marriage, then he needs therapy and quick. Also, you have 2 additional kids that you say were conceived through rape from your husband, you'd have to consider the impact on their childhood if they got wind of this. You have a very tough decision to make here and it's not an easy one. I won't wish this on anyone, but don't take this burden alone and get anyone who can protect you involved. Stay safe.
Not gonna lie, it sounds like your boyfriend took advantage of this emotional situation to cope a feel of your friend. She was deeply uncomfortable with his physical touch. You were deeply uncomfortable. Your boyfriend is the only one who got anything positive out of this interaction. And you say it was out of character, he's never reacted that way to comfort you, his girlfriend, when something emotional happens to you.
There are a lot of ideas floating around about what constitutes non-monogamy, and a lot of examples of people who are extremely bad at it.
You will find that most people who are bad at ENM are also bad at monogamous relationships, for many of the same reasons.
What you are describing is healthy non-monogamy as practiced by the ENM community. You don't hear a lot of stories like this on places like reddit because most people come here to talk about things when they go wrong – so, naturally, every time you hear about it, it sounds like a disaster.
Of course, one of the reasons you tend not to hear a lot about successful ENM is that those people are too busy doing the work of their relationship(s), so it's kind of a self-perpetuating issue.
And as I said elsewhere, it's also very hot. Add that all up, and that's why ENM has the reputation it does. It's not for everyone or even most people, but from what you are describing, it might be for you!
On and off relationships suck. Don't get in them. I speak from experience. You may have karma you both have to work through with the relationship. But you can do that by not being together.
She’s picking fights to justify her shorty behavior. Are you sure she isn’t cheating? End the marriage, OP. Don’t online like this the rest of your life.
This can help but also can create a greater attachment the longer she stays. She already knows it's not working and will never work. She needs to just rip the bandaid off quickly. The longer she stays the harder it will be to leave and heal once she actually does leave.
I experienced something incredibly similar with a 36-year-old guy at 19. He’s using you, and I’m so very sorry. Please find a way out – on-line your life and heal. This is an age where you should be having fun, making friends, and falling in love with people around your age, not getting financially exploited by scummy adult men who know far better. Best of luck.
It has nothing to do with gender. Stop using words without knowing what they mean. I think its the same for men too. I could have at least 20 sexual partner in my life but I wasn’t that easy to get. I only had 3 sexual partners because sex is not supposed to be something what you get in hours, it has something to do with soul connection and find a person attractive not only physical!!! You can’t find a person in 4 hours attractive
How about something related to the profile you just read?
There was one conversation we had where we talked about how my ex reached out to me a few months ago. My gf knows about this and knows that we talked. I told her what we talked about (my ex is an addict who has gotten sober and reached out to apologize for all the things she said and did when she was in active addiction) but I didn’t go into detail with her about how it had made me feel. I talked to my friend about this. It was the worst breakup I’d ever been through and was generally a really difficult time in my life for many reasons. It picked at an old wound and dug up a lot of feelings that were really hot. In one of the texts I said “it took everything in me not to go back to her.” This took place in the very beginning of my current relationship and I made the choice to stay with my current gf instead of entertaining the idea of trying again with my ex. My gf told me that reading that made her feel like a second choice and like I would rather be with my ex. I said “but I chose YOU. I suppose I could have tried to pursue things with my ex, but I chose to hang up the phone. I chose you.” Still it really hurt her
Drama is not fun to online through. Yeah you get a great story at the end, but having an enjoyable life is way better.
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You miss the idea of what he should have been, not what he actually is. He sounds like a complete disaster.
I’m very careful with what I say in arguments for this reason. I don’t want to “win” or hurt him in an argument, I just want it resolved so we can move on and be happy. I generally stay calm and he’s the one to start raising his voice at me, cussing etc and now adding in the way he banged his fists/threw the ring/threw his phone down it feels like it’s escalating
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Yeah. They’re definitely dating. What a horrible horrible situation for OP. My heart breaks for her
He's 30 years old already. If he doesn't know by now, that is your answer. You can't work through a thing he can't even name. He likes you to hang out with, he doesn't want to marry you. You kind of need to stop now, if only for your child's sake.
Domestic violence.
Leave.
He sounds super toxic.
Hang out with her one more time. At a restaurant or bar. And send a bunch of texts to that person, while she is next to you. See if she checks her phone. Or gets any notifications.
You could also say something really really nasty about her in the text, to see if she has a reaction to it.
Damn. I'm sorry you and your wife are going through this. Sorry for saying, but her family must all big peices of shit to treat her like that, and her sister seems to purposefully trying to stir shit up. I'm sure you're working in it, but if my wifes family was like that, I wouldn't have anything to do with them. Or be in contact in any way. It's as if they want to sabotage your rwlashionship and bring her down to feel better about themselves because they will never get to her level intellect and brilliance.
Part conjecture and part experience, but it does seem fairly common. Everyone has their own feelings toward this sort of thing, and naturally it will be correlated to how open and “sexual” they are as a person – as well as their comfort level with their partner. That doesn't make them wrong or worthy of being judged for it.
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It just sounds like you need to make better friends. Why are you with friends with someone that drags you down?
And are you sure the 2nd friend saw your husband and ex-friend? Make sure you have some proof. She could be right, but she could've just mistaken it. Get evidence.
And it's not too weird for your husband to not see you the same even after proving the allegations to be false. Look into how many people's lives are still ruined after false allegations are proven false.
As we mature, we find out who we are, our values change, and we grow in different directions. Friends who don't mature at the same rate or whose values don't align with ours anymore get left behind, and that is okay. It is good you are recognizing that you and she are no longer a good fit. Distance yourself and move on. You have outgrown this friendship, and that is no ones fault.
and you’re clinging to the bag
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I think you have to decide what outcome you want here and then work towards it. If you want him to go to prison, then call a helpline and report to the police. If you want to him stop and want to work on the marriage, then he needs therapy and quick. Also, you have 2 additional kids that you say were conceived through rape from your husband, you'd have to consider the impact on their childhood if they got wind of this. You have a very tough decision to make here and it's not an easy one. I won't wish this on anyone, but don't take this burden alone and get anyone who can protect you involved. Stay safe.
DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME RESPONDING TO THIS SPAMMER/TROLL, they post multiple times a day
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Not gonna lie, it sounds like your boyfriend took advantage of this emotional situation to cope a feel of your friend. She was deeply uncomfortable with his physical touch. You were deeply uncomfortable. Your boyfriend is the only one who got anything positive out of this interaction. And you say it was out of character, he's never reacted that way to comfort you, his girlfriend, when something emotional happens to you.
Your boyfriend sounds like a creep.
“Must”? Who's going to assert that legally?
Thank you! Feel much more confident in my decision to leave now that I know others have the same reaction to his behaviour.
You married a cheater and got cheated on.
There are a lot of ideas floating around about what constitutes non-monogamy, and a lot of examples of people who are extremely bad at it.
You will find that most people who are bad at ENM are also bad at monogamous relationships, for many of the same reasons.
What you are describing is healthy non-monogamy as practiced by the ENM community. You don't hear a lot of stories like this on places like reddit because most people come here to talk about things when they go wrong – so, naturally, every time you hear about it, it sounds like a disaster.
Of course, one of the reasons you tend not to hear a lot about successful ENM is that those people are too busy doing the work of their relationship(s), so it's kind of a self-perpetuating issue.
And as I said elsewhere, it's also very hot. Add that all up, and that's why ENM has the reputation it does. It's not for everyone or even most people, but from what you are describing, it might be for you!
You're right, once I find a way through the anxiety I'll keep my head up with pride knowing I wasnt the one that messed up
On and off relationships suck. Don't get in them. I speak from experience. You may have karma you both have to work through with the relationship. But you can do that by not being together.
She’s picking fights to justify her shorty behavior. Are you sure she isn’t cheating? End the marriage, OP. Don’t online like this the rest of your life.
confused about why you're asking this here…
This can help but also can create a greater attachment the longer she stays. She already knows it's not working and will never work. She needs to just rip the bandaid off quickly. The longer she stays the harder it will be to leave and heal once she actually does leave.
I think plenty of old people have high follower counts and let people know they were in the military at every opportunity. Seems fine