But for real please leave. This relationship will only build trauma. Even his 13 year old brother recognized it. If a 13 year old can recognize abuse then you needs to as well.
I though it was because of porn, some women consider that a boundary.
Anyway why don't you do it in bed, if she considers you going out of the room “dirty” just keep he awake while you do your business. I wonder is she never helps her self, I would find that odd.
Tell her you going out is to not disturb her while she sleeps, but you will more than happy to do it in front of her or keep her awake when you can not sleep for the lack of it.
Think “Is this something my mother would have said or done?” then don’t do it. Stop repeating the cycle.
Get a therapist or if that’s too expensive, even just listen to podcasts or read books about parenting styles and the damage they can do. You have to repair the emotional damage that was done to you and stop it harming your adult relationships.
I am drained…and avoiding what is probably the smart decision. I’m a hopeless romantic and have been obsessed with my wife forever…I love to make her laugh, to romance her, to challenge her, to be her ”one”. She’s been mine. This hurts immeasurably and I haven’t quite come to grips with losing my lover and my best friend. There have been a few harsh responses here toward me or my wife. I have no hate toward her and I’m quite secure as a man, happy and confident in who I am. I’m frustrated that it felt our lives were finally becoming ours with grown kids…We had a shared vision and I’m likely faced with starting over. It’s quite shocking to go from the excitement or growing old together to pulling the proverbial plug on the relationship…
Exactly mate, im not trying to be rude. You know the answer already bro x
But for real please leave. This relationship will only build trauma. Even his 13 year old brother recognized it. If a 13 year old can recognize abuse then you needs to as well.
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I though it was because of porn, some women consider that a boundary.
Anyway why don't you do it in bed, if she considers you going out of the room “dirty” just keep he awake while you do your business. I wonder is she never helps her self, I would find that odd.
Tell her you going out is to not disturb her while she sleeps, but you will more than happy to do it in front of her or keep her awake when you can not sleep for the lack of it.
Here goes women's favorite phrase
“My body my choise”
Love isn't enough to cover her sins.
Think “Is this something my mother would have said or done?” then don’t do it. Stop repeating the cycle.
Get a therapist or if that’s too expensive, even just listen to podcasts or read books about parenting styles and the damage they can do. You have to repair the emotional damage that was done to you and stop it harming your adult relationships.
I….just say I don't want to do that? Why lie?
It’s gonna be a no from me dawg. Maybe reconsider this situation, he isn’t letting this go.
I am drained…and avoiding what is probably the smart decision. I’m a hopeless romantic and have been obsessed with my wife forever…I love to make her laugh, to romance her, to challenge her, to be her ”one”. She’s been mine. This hurts immeasurably and I haven’t quite come to grips with losing my lover and my best friend. There have been a few harsh responses here toward me or my wife. I have no hate toward her and I’m quite secure as a man, happy and confident in who I am. I’m frustrated that it felt our lives were finally becoming ours with grown kids…We had a shared vision and I’m likely faced with starting over. It’s quite shocking to go from the excitement or growing old together to pulling the proverbial plug on the relationship…