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Okay and what’s your point? All of you in these comments just want to be right so bad, I showed ways in which he’s committed and now it’s not enough ? Reddit is so stupid all y’all care about is being RIGHT not helping or actually saying something beneficial.
Are you totally sure it will be your asset? Has he said he will put you on the deed? Do you have that in writing? Personally I wouldn't agree to 50/50 specifically without household chores and everything ALSO being equitable, to start with, but I also think income splits for rent are more fair.
….you are trying to compare a computer game to something that is (probably still) illegal where you are, costs you money, and already has you addicted.
Is he addicted? Possible, he does show some signs of being addicted to the game based on your post. But unless he’s paying to win, you can play DOTA for free, and it’s not illegal anywhere (yet).
You say that you are unemployed currently, so how are you affording your weed?
And did your addiction or the mental and emotional changes since you stopped your medication in favour for weed have anything to do with your loss of your employment?
I think the mistake all along has been thinking that it is somehow your job to solve her trust issues or that you are even capable of being able to do that. Unless you are the one that caused said trust issues this is really something mostly needs to deal with on her own. You can be supportive but you at solve it for her.
1 week, not even every year. He can get a short term prescription for klonopin if he’s that worked up over it. He chose to marry a foreign wife with a foreign family and is stirring the pot when his WIFE wants just a week with her family in their home? He also gets frustrated just spending a few hours with his own family? Life isn’t all roses and rainbows, especially when you claim to love someone else and ought to care about another person’s happiness. Once in a while.
Plain and simple they both disrespected their partners. Sounds like the husband didn’t like it just as much as you, and they did it anyway. Your guy is 45, he didn’t care how you felt. Girl, you’re only 30, find someone else, maybe closer to your age. You shouldn’t have to tell a 45 yo that his getting matching tattoos with his girl bf bothers you. Maybe it shouldn’t, but it did and he didn’t care. His actions show you everything.
I mean, what you 'want' has been the problem all along. You just went out and cheated anytime you felt like it. At the end of the day it always comes back to you and what you feel and this isn't proving otherwise.
She will never be able to trust you. She may wish she could, she may also hope you won't hurt her again, but she is being naive.
So time to be the bigger person and actually think of her for once. Withdraw your pursuit, tell her to go and find her actual happiness, and you go off and work out how to be a better person not to get her back but so at the very least one day she can think at least he grew from it.
It was kind of you to want to help her, but unfortunately it sounds like she's seeing you almost as a parent figure. If you haven't done something like this before, you probably wouldn't have known that you need to set clear boundaries, and be prepared to reinforce them when she tests you.
You need to start having that conversation with her now. Given her MH issues, I would do this gradually, starting by refocusing her expectations so she knows you can't afford to support her financially, and helping her make a plan. You can be friendly and say you'll help her with that but put a deadline of one month to agree a plan and for her to move out or have an income to pay her way.
You are assuming that. But anyways maybe he doesn't check Facebook as often as you do? I would assume you have his phone number? How about you wait til early next week and ask him then?
The cognitive dissonance it has to take to write an entire post about how much of a deadbeat loser your partner is and then post it on the Internet to ask how you can stay together is insane.
Words have meaning. You just told a child that you are not his dad, he didn’t hear anything you said after that. From now on he will treat you differently because you invalidated his feelings and he doesn’t have the emotional capacity yet to see the nuance of your statement.
Smoking herb is fine, I do it as well. But it’s not sober. Your brother asked for you to be sober, not Cali sober. You can try to convince him that they are the same thing but they’re really not.
If you won’t go completely sober all you can do is online your best life. People will notice. Prove to your brother that you can be responsible and productive
Okay and what’s your point? All of you in these comments just want to be right so bad, I showed ways in which he’s committed and now it’s not enough ? Reddit is so stupid all y’all care about is being RIGHT not helping or actually saying something beneficial.
Are you totally sure it will be your asset? Has he said he will put you on the deed? Do you have that in writing? Personally I wouldn't agree to 50/50 specifically without household chores and everything ALSO being equitable, to start with, but I also think income splits for rent are more fair.
….you are trying to compare a computer game to something that is (probably still) illegal where you are, costs you money, and already has you addicted.
Is he addicted? Possible, he does show some signs of being addicted to the game based on your post. But unless he’s paying to win, you can play DOTA for free, and it’s not illegal anywhere (yet).
You say that you are unemployed currently, so how are you affording your weed?
And did your addiction or the mental and emotional changes since you stopped your medication in favour for weed have anything to do with your loss of your employment?
Except for the wife part cause I’ve been in his room. Saves our convo on Snap
You are definitely missing some pieces of this puzzle. Do not let her turn this around and make it about your response to her behaviour.
I think the mistake all along has been thinking that it is somehow your job to solve her trust issues or that you are even capable of being able to do that. Unless you are the one that caused said trust issues this is really something mostly needs to deal with on her own. You can be supportive but you at solve it for her.
1 week, not even every year. He can get a short term prescription for klonopin if he’s that worked up over it. He chose to marry a foreign wife with a foreign family and is stirring the pot when his WIFE wants just a week with her family in their home? He also gets frustrated just spending a few hours with his own family? Life isn’t all roses and rainbows, especially when you claim to love someone else and ought to care about another person’s happiness. Once in a while.
Since after this long it's quite obvious that she isn't willing to try, I think you know what the answer is…and that's an even harder conversation.
Truly, it sounds like she just doesn't care.
Bro, get your shit together and move on.
The next time he leaves her house, follow him home and find out.
I have really bad anxiety/OCD and get extremely guilty and tell on myself for the smallest things. Just needed an opinion to make sure, haha.
Plain and simple they both disrespected their partners. Sounds like the husband didn’t like it just as much as you, and they did it anyway. Your guy is 45, he didn’t care how you felt. Girl, you’re only 30, find someone else, maybe closer to your age. You shouldn’t have to tell a 45 yo that his getting matching tattoos with his girl bf bothers you. Maybe it shouldn’t, but it did and he didn’t care. His actions show you everything.
Weird to use initializations specific to other subs here
I mean, what you 'want' has been the problem all along. You just went out and cheated anytime you felt like it. At the end of the day it always comes back to you and what you feel and this isn't proving otherwise.
She will never be able to trust you. She may wish she could, she may also hope you won't hurt her again, but she is being naive.
So time to be the bigger person and actually think of her for once. Withdraw your pursuit, tell her to go and find her actual happiness, and you go off and work out how to be a better person not to get her back but so at the very least one day she can think at least he grew from it.
Well, time has passed and now he says my language is too very hot and he just can't do it.
Yes, languages can be tough, but most people even manage a few phrases before they go on holiday somewhere to be polite.
So he's taken language classes? He's looked for a language tandem to practice?
If not, he's not actually made an actual effort.
It was kind of you to want to help her, but unfortunately it sounds like she's seeing you almost as a parent figure. If you haven't done something like this before, you probably wouldn't have known that you need to set clear boundaries, and be prepared to reinforce them when she tests you.
You need to start having that conversation with her now. Given her MH issues, I would do this gradually, starting by refocusing her expectations so she knows you can't afford to support her financially, and helping her make a plan. You can be friendly and say you'll help her with that but put a deadline of one month to agree a plan and for her to move out or have an income to pay her way.
You are assuming that. But anyways maybe he doesn't check Facebook as often as you do? I would assume you have his phone number? How about you wait til early next week and ask him then?
The cognitive dissonance it has to take to write an entire post about how much of a deadbeat loser your partner is and then post it on the Internet to ask how you can stay together is insane.
Words have meaning. You just told a child that you are not his dad, he didn’t hear anything you said after that. From now on he will treat you differently because you invalidated his feelings and he doesn’t have the emotional capacity yet to see the nuance of your statement.
That was my thought too
Smoking herb is fine, I do it as well. But it’s not sober. Your brother asked for you to be sober, not Cali sober. You can try to convince him that they are the same thing but they’re really not.
If you won’t go completely sober all you can do is online your best life. People will notice. Prove to your brother that you can be responsible and productive