Give up on this guy. He’s too much of a coward to tell you he does not want to get married. He’s too much of a coward to be accountable for his changed view of you. Plus you know he told people about the sex and now they are doubly against you. They are shitty people, too. You don’t want to be part of this family.
Hon, the problem here is he's too young to make a commitment like marriage and you've been together so long. He hasn't sown his wild oats. He hasn't experienced dating enough different people. I think you would have very valid worries going into a marriage with this person.
This will be a bitter pill but I'm going to suggest that you call off the wedding and break up and date other people. Or don't date, but break up anyway. Although being in the military you should have no shortage of guys to date if you want to.
But first get him to wipe all your spicy pictures off his phone. Sit there and watch him do it.
So they've all just decided they don't really like you? Naaa I think your husband has planted the seed a long time ago and has been nurturing that seed for a long time. They don't inude you because he doesn't want to include you. That disney trip bullshit is shady as fuck there's no way he didn't know and no way his best friends would keep him in the dark on sharing a room with that Patrick dude. Just no way they would do that to their friends wife unprompted.
You seem to think there is only 1 answer that is correct and it is yours. I'm on your bf's side. He knows that it is the middle of the night. Why would he text you, potentially wake you up, just to let you know he's going to a friend's house? If they made these plans at a reasonable hour? Sure, he should shoot you a text to let you know. If it is a spur of the moment, 2 am decision? No.
I'd rip the band-aid off and end it rather sooner than later.
Give up on this guy. He’s too much of a coward to tell you he does not want to get married. He’s too much of a coward to be accountable for his changed view of you. Plus you know he told people about the sex and now they are doubly against you. They are shitty people, too. You don’t want to be part of this family.
Hon, the problem here is he's too young to make a commitment like marriage and you've been together so long. He hasn't sown his wild oats. He hasn't experienced dating enough different people. I think you would have very valid worries going into a marriage with this person.
This will be a bitter pill but I'm going to suggest that you call off the wedding and break up and date other people. Or don't date, but break up anyway. Although being in the military you should have no shortage of guys to date if you want to.
But first get him to wipe all your spicy pictures off his phone. Sit there and watch him do it.
Best of luck to you in everything.
How is this wrong?
He’s still signed into the Twitter account and I’m paranoid the porn stuff is still popping up on his feed whenever he opens the app.
Wait, lemme get this straight…
She wants to get married so you’re not going to propose?
Dude you’re not mature enough to get married…
A lot women drop hints when they’ve wasted so long with a man who doesn’t seem to be understanding that they want to get married.
Her end goal is marriage. She’s dropping hints because if you don’t propose, eventually she’s going to go find someone that will.
So they've all just decided they don't really like you? Naaa I think your husband has planted the seed a long time ago and has been nurturing that seed for a long time. They don't inude you because he doesn't want to include you. That disney trip bullshit is shady as fuck there's no way he didn't know and no way his best friends would keep him in the dark on sharing a room with that Patrick dude. Just no way they would do that to their friends wife unprompted.
You seem to think there is only 1 answer that is correct and it is yours. I'm on your bf's side. He knows that it is the middle of the night. Why would he text you, potentially wake you up, just to let you know he's going to a friend's house? If they made these plans at a reasonable hour? Sure, he should shoot you a text to let you know. If it is a spur of the moment, 2 am decision? No.
The only kind of blokes that introduce kids so soon are the ones who are expecting you to take over childcare – big red flag!!
Well poopy pants. Clean out your pants and talk to her.
Is she going to deal with her problems and doubts, or just ignore them and marry the guy?
She is obviously conflicted.
Don’t hook up again until she can be honest with herself. Better to let her go than help her cheat and lie about it.