I think you need to wildly curb your drinking. Starting today. It’s disgusting and disrespectful to you physically and morally that he KNOWS you cannot consent or use a safe word in these cases.
Being blackout drunk and having a force fetish usually aren’t two things people use together. Usually if one happens the other should not be there…… that’s like commonplace with sex. Blackout drunk=no consent therefore no sexual activity.
I think it’s time to lay it out point blank for your husband the terms of your fetish and what you’ll tolerate. And why it’s so inappropriate that he’s much rougher when you aren’t able to consent or discuss anything.
This woman and their decisions wreaked havoc on a lot of peoples lives, and she is well known to being in love with him despite it all
If you had blamed the correct person from the beginning, you wouldn't be posting to reddit now.
Lets fix this sentence….My boyfriend and his decisions wreaked havoc on a lot of peoples lives, and his partner in his affair is well known to being in love with him despite it all
So ask yourself, why did you enter a relationship with a known cheater? Why did you expect to be treated differently than everyone else? Why did you think his affair partner stop seeing him when you came along?
This is so freaking sketchy. Seriously.
I think you need to wildly curb your drinking. Starting today. It’s disgusting and disrespectful to you physically and morally that he KNOWS you cannot consent or use a safe word in these cases.
Being blackout drunk and having a force fetish usually aren’t two things people use together. Usually if one happens the other should not be there…… that’s like commonplace with sex. Blackout drunk=no consent therefore no sexual activity.
I think it’s time to lay it out point blank for your husband the terms of your fetish and what you’ll tolerate. And why it’s so inappropriate that he’s much rougher when you aren’t able to consent or discuss anything.
That’s how his mama taught him.
This woman and their decisions wreaked havoc on a lot of peoples lives, and she is well known to being in love with him despite it all
If you had blamed the correct person from the beginning, you wouldn't be posting to reddit now.
Lets fix this sentence….My boyfriend and his decisions wreaked havoc on a lot of peoples lives, and his partner in his affair is well known to being in love with him despite it all
So ask yourself, why did you enter a relationship with a known cheater? Why did you expect to be treated differently than everyone else? Why did you think his affair partner stop seeing him when you came along?
You know what you should do next
Basically means, blocking/banning without their knowledge.
A “timeout”.