Regardless of what is going on it is time for a secret of your own: a secret savings account and other financial measures to protect yourself from the possibility of many of the potential outcomes that may be in your future.
Your so called friend blew up your life and you're still in contact with her? Put the blame where is belongs, on her. Apologise to your husband and start working on fixing what She broke.
Why are you so willing to throw away Eleven Years? Actions speak louder than words. He's loved and cherished you for over a decade. Raised children with you. But you're going to let your insecurity and the words of a snake rip you apart.
SHE HATES YOU. Get that into your head. She. Hates. You.
Get your head right before you lose this good man who loves you.
When something needs after care, it's usually because trauma has been suffered. After care is what trauma victims need, like after experiencing a near death experience, for example. Experiencing love doesn't need after care. You break a leg, you're going to need after care.
If it really were safe and all that stuff then it very simply wouldn't require after care.
You have a gf. It's a dumb rookie move to “confess” to someone not your partner to get it off your back. I'm guessing you want to raise the issue with him to see how he responds, and if he responds positively, to use this new thing to get out of your old thing. Don't get me wrong; at your age people change & want to experience other things, and that's OK. What you do is do the right thing. You want out. It's OK. But don't be an asshole along the way, take your chances the way stand-up people do.
Yes I’ve brought up the fact that when we do on-line together, that absolutely will not be allowed in our home at all. On the other hand, because of our careers, we will not be able to online together for at least another 3-5 years. I feel so hopeless and ridiculous constantly begging for attention. I’m truly not sure how much longer I can put up with it.
He doesn't have to agree or like it. Just repeat it on black and white terms that leave no room for doubt, then block him.
Regardless of what is going on it is time for a secret of your own: a secret savings account and other financial measures to protect yourself from the possibility of many of the potential outcomes that may be in your future.
Your so called friend blew up your life and you're still in contact with her? Put the blame where is belongs, on her. Apologise to your husband and start working on fixing what She broke.
Why are you so willing to throw away Eleven Years? Actions speak louder than words. He's loved and cherished you for over a decade. Raised children with you. But you're going to let your insecurity and the words of a snake rip you apart.
SHE HATES YOU. Get that into your head. She. Hates. You.
Get your head right before you lose this good man who loves you.
Sure, whatever you say.
When something needs after care, it's usually because trauma has been suffered. After care is what trauma victims need, like after experiencing a near death experience, for example. Experiencing love doesn't need after care. You break a leg, you're going to need after care.
If it really were safe and all that stuff then it very simply wouldn't require after care.
You have a gf. It's a dumb rookie move to “confess” to someone not your partner to get it off your back. I'm guessing you want to raise the issue with him to see how he responds, and if he responds positively, to use this new thing to get out of your old thing. Don't get me wrong; at your age people change & want to experience other things, and that's OK. What you do is do the right thing. You want out. It's OK. But don't be an asshole along the way, take your chances the way stand-up people do.
Yes I’ve brought up the fact that when we do on-line together, that absolutely will not be allowed in our home at all. On the other hand, because of our careers, we will not be able to online together for at least another 3-5 years. I feel so hopeless and ridiculous constantly begging for attention. I’m truly not sure how much longer I can put up with it.
Maybe his rich family can spend some money ….aint saying she is a Gold Digger.
Mm, pretty sure he's lying, but it's not clear what he's lying about.
I was thinking that too somewhere in michigan, although she doesnt like the old cozy wood feel. I tried looking for a more modern one but no luck :/
Oh my god you’re dating a 5 year old, I would advise against allowing this type of mental gymnastics.