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And she cheated on you and is also pregnant? So she cheated on you before the other night. Baby, kick her to the curb! If she is cheating along with being knocked up, she doesn’t care about you in the slightest.
No, don’t reach out to give him a time frame. I think you have to set him free in your mind. When you say “we were pulling the wool over our eyes” it sounds like YOU were pulling the wool over YOUR eyes. He got the perfect deal, he broke up, didn’t explain anything, went on with his merry life and got absolutely no push back from you. Girl, he hurt you. He just up and left you after four years with just a totally vague explanation that isn’t an explanation for anything at all. ‘He couldn’t do what you needed?’ You deserve more.
He probably isn’t going to come back, so just focus on yourself now and become the best version of yourself. IF he does come back, you are owed an explanation at the very least. But please, don’t wait for him.
You’re single. The person you’re interested in and you are not dating, she’s made that clear. So feel free to hit up your ex if you want to, and if you and her decide to hook up while you’re there, there’s nothing morally wrong with it.
OP was wanting to talk about her ex and lied to us off the bat
You both are idiots. Two pregnancies within just 4 months of dating? Jesus Christ.
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Tell him his supposed feelings for you obviously mean diddly squat as he not only had sex with someone else but exposed you to STI’s without your knowledge or consent. He does not value you now nor will he going forward. Dump his ass!
You've come here asking for people's opinions on your situation and they've given it, it's just not the one you wanted to hear.
“That day, for no particular reason, I decided to go for a little bang. So I banged to the end of the road. And when I got there, I thought maybe I'd bang to the end of town. And when I got there, I thought maybe I'd just bang across Greenbow county. And I figured, since I banged this far, maybe I'd just bang across the great state of Alabama. And that's what I did. I banged clear across Alabama.” – /u/Law_Easy ‘s ex
I understand you fully now and I didn't mean to get defensive, projection really.
Me responding in a snapping manner, even though I don't think it's that serious, is an issue and she's brought up before. But it's stinks because anytime I have some sort of forceful disagreement, she shutdowns which just fuels me up because nothing is getting resolved.
So yes, I do want a healthier relationship than my parents. However, even my lite mode she reacts to poorly. So, it's like I have to diffuse everything I disagree with her on with her humor, which is fun and what we normally do. But I was too tired and on edge to do it this time.
Therapy does sound helpful but we're not on a marriage level and that will likely make things awkward for long-term but thanks for the suggestion.
But closing up, because I reacted the way I did, it again falls on me which I do not like. But so it is. I will not let this slide and will calmly address how I feel and why I responded the way I did. But who knows, maybe she's already made her decision about me. But thank you for digging in, I realize my fault a little more.
So if op doesn't have proof then he shouldn't speak up? This is horrible advice, at least if you're trynna do the moral thing
Tell the guy the facts and if you have proof then prove it but ultimately the decision on whether or not to believe you lies on the exes partner
and the thought of some girl banging your son under the same roof is different because…???
Wow.. I dont really know what else to say except run away from this situation.
He clearly already threatened your future daughter and he actually made a threat to you OP. Don't stay with this guy and do not even think about marrying him.
If he is for this, you will always have something hanging over your head. Your future daughter too. You are in danger.
You are correct. You do not belong to him, either. Saying that sounds controlling and creepy. Men need to learn to control themselves. Their behavior is not your problem or your fault.
No reason to tell anyone
You f##ck#d up!
No way to break it to her easy.
Fix yourself before that baby comes.
He should not be relaying these conversations back to you. He should be standing up for you and telling them to stop speaking to him like that. He is telling you about this to make you feel unsettled and insecure.
I bet these supposed conversations aren't even happening and he is making it up to – again – make you feel insecure and unsettled. It's just another form of negging. That's why he doesn't want you bringing it up with them and to just 'act normal'. (Which frankly, is pretty insane in itself. “Yeah, I know my family is constantly telling me to betray you and go fuck other women behind your back but I insist you join us for Sunday dinner and act 'normal'.” Who would expect you to do that?? To just swallow that bullshit?? An unhealthy partner, that's who.) If you bring it up to them, you'll expose his lies.
These are things that he thinks and feels, not his family. That he should be able to go have more sexual experiences. He's approaching it this way in hopes of breaking you down enough that you'll allow him to fuck other women while still keeping you handy and available.
This relationship is dead in the water. Even if I'm wrong about everything, he still thinks you should sit at the dinner table with these people and he still relays these incredibly hurtful and useless conversations to you. I'm betting this isn't the first or only instance of him chipping away at your self-worth, self-esteem and value as a human being.
Read justnomil and milfromhell if that's what you want for your future, continue on, otherwise leave him, do him a favor by teaching him a woman isn't going to take that abuse.
OP, you are being groomed.
There is way more to this shit than “being christian”. Maybe he is part of these extre right cobservative circles.
Get out of there. Now.
Let it go. He is cheap and unreliable. You won't be any better for chewing him out because his care level is below zero.