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Date: December 5, 2022
I understand where your coming from thanks your your imput
Uh, not all anime takes place in a school. But I get the criticism from that particular type of anime. And I never even mentioned high school setting anime, as I wouldn't defend that. It's just some take it too far in wanting all perceived sexualization of women to be removed, like Major from Ghost in the Shell dressing too provocatively or the fan service from Konosuba being too much for some.
As I said, my childhood was literally splashed across national newspapers. My reputation could literally not go lower and idgaf about being blamed. So don't worry about that part.
Thanks for the rest, helpful to have advice from someone who has some similar experiences.
Love had ups and down. Apologize tell her what you told in your post and ask for another chance.
Well. Something isn’t right and it’s not you. Don’t accept someone who ghosts you when you have plans. Move on
Watching a friend go through this now, tho he seems to be starting to wake up.
First off — hope you’re doing okay. I know these things can be rough.
It kind of sounds like she has been thinking about ending things for some time. Have you noticed the relationship starting to fall apart or was this out of the blue?
If she does decide to get back with you it is one of two things. She either realizes what she had with you was good or she comes back because she’s afraid of being on her own.
As people age sometimes it freaks them out. They realize they aren’t as far in life as they’d hoped they were and realize they aren’t happy. They don’t know what they need to change to get to where they want to be. She might be asking herself if she can do what she’s been doing for the next 20 years. If she can see herself getting married to you.
She may like you and love you but you still might not be the person she thinks she wants. You started dating her when she was 18 and now she’s 22. She’s probably matured a lot in comparison and her view of the world has changed. She’s realizing there’s other options and right now you’re her fallback.
No matter what happens my advice for you is to focus on bettering yourself — that way you’re improving whether it’s for her or the next one.
I didn’t write this to upset you. I wrote this to possibly give you some perspective. Things will work out for you one way or the other. Keep your calm, be respectful to her and ask her if there is a path forward when the time is right.
You guys don’t really seem compatible. Of course lots of ACTUAL communication would improve some of your issues but not all. Communication as in actual expressing of your wants/needs and listening to each other. This was not your party to go to. You should have listed to her. NOT convinced her to take you. Sure she shouldn’t have left her guest to the party all alone. But you should not have dragged your self to a party you were too tired to go to and expect her to just go to bed because YOU were tired. That’s selfish of you. This was a party she was expressly invited to and wanted to attend.
It seems like your needs overall aren’t being met in this relationship. It sounds like you want things that she doesn’t WANT or care to give you. And it seems like she does things (drinks a lot) that you don’t like. But this is a horrible example for you to use of her being a bad girlfriend. I’m sure she does enough things you don’t like that makes her clearly in the wrong. However, in this case you were complain-y and needy at a party you forced yourself to be invited to and then were admittedly too sick and tired to go —thus you obviously had a bad time and expected her to have a bad time too. Expecting you SO to put energy and time into you is valid but not like this.
Sounds cliché and like what everyone jumps to on this sub, but y’all need to break up. You’re not compatible
Honey you’re not listening to me. Someone who loves you and cares about you would not follow that statement up with days of the silent treatment. The silent treatment is abuse. At best, it’s rude and uncommunicative, neither of which are ideal in a partner. At worst, it’s an abusive way to get you further under his thumb.
Like look at you! Your just crawling back to him begging for him to “take you back” when in reality you should be pissed the fuck off at his shitty behavior!! Honey your normal meter is broken, I truly hope you wake up one day realizing just how…submissive this man has made you, in the worse way
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!! Dating as an adult is NOT supposed to be like this!!!! This man is totally love-bombing you, and that's a gigantic red flag because abusers love-bomb too in the beginning of a relationship!! I'm not saying that this man is an abuser but I'm saying that abuser do this, it a tactic.
In any case, you're not feeling comfortable!! You ask for space and you're not given space, that's another gigantic red flag. Adults in a healthy relationship do give space to each other. In other words: RUN!!!!!!!
And for future reference, if your gut is telling you that something is wrong, it is. Good luck!