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Date: November 4, 2022
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I was in a similar position a few years ago. I was living in another state and got into a terrible car accident, my car was totaled and I walked away with minor injuries. My long-term gf at the time (we were together since high school, so about 5 years at that point ) didn't believe that I got into an accident and never called to ask how I was doing let alone ask if she should come to see me. She gaslighted me claiming that I was using the accident to try to get her attention. Granted I should have ended things right there but I was young, dumb, and scared. Things, of course, did not get better and somehow I manage to get to the point of almost getting married 4 years later before her behavior became too much and I had to walk away a month before the wedding.
Heed my warning, it will not get better! I know it is naked and a lot is going through your mind with this traumatic incident that you had but I advise you to walk away now before you get in too deep as I did. It will only become harder in the long run.
Should I go to HR and inform them about my boss trying to pull off shit like that?
It sounds like both of you need some serious boundary work. I’m not sure if I would want my mother there for such a thing? Let alone my grandma.
Hey at least op didn’t say how perfect and amazing he is before going into the dodgy sus af context.
OP get some rest from relationships, you are your own whole person and don’t need a luggage without the handle. Go cook some herbs, cook your vagege on a gwen paltroy stand, clean your vibes.
Dating is expensive and should be reciprocal. That said, you are t obligated to take your girlfriend to high end restaurants for every special occasion. It should be perfectly fine to either take her to a mid-range restaurant or cook her a meal at home or get take out.
Where does she take you for your birthday?
I think it’s fine if you’re honest with her that you feel things are unbalanced. If she wants to take turns paying, that’s fine but that means she gets to pay for the $400 Valentine’s Day dinner if you pick up Subway.
First, realize she is clearly choosing you, still. If she had any doubts about her relationship with you, she wouldn't have told you.
Second, she's trapped there for now. She has to keep the peace and that she's probably not in a position to just slam the door on this guy without causing all sorts of problems.
Try to talk to her every day and reassure her how much you love her (but don't go overboard). Let her vent to you about her situation and don't react to it in a negative way because that will just discourage her from talking about it. Just be supportive.
so I asked her “why were you so cautious about her and I getting tested but you gave no care to ask this random dude you slept with before me to get tested or to even just ask him to wear a condom since you weren’t dating him seriously or anything”
I promise I say this with nothing but love, but dude you're being an asshole. She made a mistake. It happens. She brought up getting tested because she cares about YOU and her relationship with you, not because she cares about herself. She probably feels like a horrible person to have given you an STD and you just kind of shit all over her about it. And then you are still mad about it 6 months later. Let it go or let her go. Having this unneeded anger and false victimhood in your life is not doing anyone any favors.
Does he know how much you make?
You are going to feel different. But, at some point, somebody is going to make you feel even better than before.
But do not use your past experience as a reference.
Sorry dude. Get screen shops and send them to your self or records be screen as you scroll through the messages
Since he's already talked about how he doesn't want her distracting you, I'm least to believe it's something far worse; I think he tried hitting on her, & said/ did something inappropriate.
I’m sorry I don’t mean to sound rude, but what I’m the actual fuck is wrong with you. This man is broke, mean, and didn’t give a fuck while you were miscarrying his child. but you love him
Okay fine. Stay and torture yourself, stay and lead a miserable existence. No matter how much you love him. He doesn’t love you. He has displayed that a multitude of times. He knows everytime you get the courage to leave he just has to put on his sad boy act and you’ll stay. Have some self respect woman, you’re 28 and have your whole on-line ahead of you. It’s better to be alone then to be tied to the fucking parasite of a man you currently have.