If you got the ick I doubt it will go away. Always a rule of thumb, the past is the past. Unless it’s medically necessary to disclose. Everyone has a past but his disregard for how you fell is not attractive.
That is very odd. Obviously something is going on. Best course of action is to wait for him to tell you what it is. Obviously, don't brush over it. It seems like he's working through something mentally.
Also, this may not be as important, but from the way you worded it, it seems like this may be the first time you guys talked / decided about kids. He asked you “will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” Wouldn't he already know the answer to that question? After 5 years, haven't you talked about the big important stuff like kids already? If not, it seems to me that there could be many other things beneath the surface that you do not know about concerning him.
This is incredibly insightful advice and very in-line with what I’ve been realizing tonight. I feel very confident that he didn’t seek me out because I was younger or anything like that. So it really comes down to where we are both at in life. Luckily, we are both single, never been married, no kids – so the barriers to entry might be lower relatively. Of course there’s still a lot to consider. Thank you so much for your thoughts!
If I told you that Japanese people slaughter and eat dolphins is that a racist stereotype? Or is that a fact? It's truly a horrific thing. Those are amazing creatures. Seems like he went a little off topic with the Chinese but they do indeed eat bats… he was just stating a fact. I think you both need to mature a little bit. Your reaction was over the top and he needs to mature as well.
You need to stop. You asked for another chance. He politely said no without saying the word and is not responding. He should be honest and clear, but he's clearly saying no. Unless he reaches out to you, which you should not expect, it's over. You need to start accepting that.
Have you tried talking to him about it? Just like you did here, to us?
I did not know that and do appreciate you sharing the statistic. Thank you.
If you got the ick I doubt it will go away. Always a rule of thumb, the past is the past. Unless it’s medically necessary to disclose. Everyone has a past but his disregard for how you fell is not attractive.
Gosh that is a lot but I'm pleased to hear she has her parents to help too.
But how are you doing?
That is very odd. Obviously something is going on. Best course of action is to wait for him to tell you what it is. Obviously, don't brush over it. It seems like he's working through something mentally.
Also, this may not be as important, but from the way you worded it, it seems like this may be the first time you guys talked / decided about kids. He asked you “will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” Wouldn't he already know the answer to that question? After 5 years, haven't you talked about the big important stuff like kids already? If not, it seems to me that there could be many other things beneath the surface that you do not know about concerning him.
This is incredibly insightful advice and very in-line with what I’ve been realizing tonight. I feel very confident that he didn’t seek me out because I was younger or anything like that. So it really comes down to where we are both at in life. Luckily, we are both single, never been married, no kids – so the barriers to entry might be lower relatively. Of course there’s still a lot to consider. Thank you so much for your thoughts!
this is the one.
If I told you that Japanese people slaughter and eat dolphins is that a racist stereotype? Or is that a fact? It's truly a horrific thing. Those are amazing creatures. Seems like he went a little off topic with the Chinese but they do indeed eat bats… he was just stating a fact. I think you both need to mature a little bit. Your reaction was over the top and he needs to mature as well.
Yay!!! You liked it!!! I hope it all works out, whether or not that's how the proposal goes down. Congrats on the upcoming engagement!! ❤️💍
He is not English he's from Spain so that might be why hes not reply as he might not understand my message?!
You need to stop. You asked for another chance. He politely said no without saying the word and is not responding. He should be honest and clear, but he's clearly saying no. Unless he reaches out to you, which you should not expect, it's over. You need to start accepting that.