It’s interesting how many people are trying to make you feel crazy for wanting your daughters to feel safe and protected here. Allow me if you will:
The grandmother carried the eggs that would become your daughters inside her – true, but the grandmother didn’t marry OP, agree on a parenting style and give birth to his children. That would be his wife who blew him off.
Lots of cultures are more relaxed around nudity – Is OPs? Mine isn’t. And it’s not okay to try to force someone to be comfortable with it.
Why do you care? They are so young anyway – because he’s their father, and was just informed “someone is hot with your kids, and no one asked you or told you until just now.” That is quite a shock.
You’re such a prude – Well no you are not OP. You’re a person with a reasonable view of privacy who’s boundaries have been crossed and concerns have been ignored.
In short, you protect that sweet children with all your might, OP. Even if it means having a nude conversation with the adults involved.
He is going to hit you or worse kill you. This is absolutely unacceptable. You need to make an exit plan. He put your life in danger on purpose and you’re waiting around for an apology? Why?! He doesn’t deserve another second of your time, energy, or love. I know it’s hard and when he gets like this you think about all of the times he’s made you feel loved, and how you can just get back to when he wasn’t acting this way. But none of that matters now that you are in legitimate danger.
If she’s acting like that she simply can’t handle any situation. This is not a person you should be with. Someone crying is in distress and she simply acted like she it was not ok for a man to cry. Not cool
I feel sorry for those cats. She feeds them but they’ve basically been abandoned.
And she’s manipulative as heck
It’s interesting how many people are trying to make you feel crazy for wanting your daughters to feel safe and protected here. Allow me if you will:
The grandmother carried the eggs that would become your daughters inside her – true, but the grandmother didn’t marry OP, agree on a parenting style and give birth to his children. That would be his wife who blew him off.
Lots of cultures are more relaxed around nudity – Is OPs? Mine isn’t. And it’s not okay to try to force someone to be comfortable with it.
Why do you care? They are so young anyway – because he’s their father, and was just informed “someone is hot with your kids, and no one asked you or told you until just now.” That is quite a shock.
You’re such a prude – Well no you are not OP. You’re a person with a reasonable view of privacy who’s boundaries have been crossed and concerns have been ignored.
In short, you protect that sweet children with all your might, OP. Even if it means having a nude conversation with the adults involved.
The shouting match should be your red flag if nothing else.
He is going to hit you or worse kill you. This is absolutely unacceptable. You need to make an exit plan. He put your life in danger on purpose and you’re waiting around for an apology? Why?! He doesn’t deserve another second of your time, energy, or love. I know it’s hard and when he gets like this you think about all of the times he’s made you feel loved, and how you can just get back to when he wasn’t acting this way. But none of that matters now that you are in legitimate danger.
Anyways, I didn’t contact her for a week because I was busy. Also, I wanted to see if she would contact me.
You are both a bit too childish to be dating, but she's 23 so that's expected, you are 28… You shouldn't need to play these games.
If she’s acting like that she simply can’t handle any situation. This is not a person you should be with. Someone crying is in distress and she simply acted like she it was not ok for a man to cry. Not cool
This is so true. Thank you!!!!
Yeah but not completely locking her out of everything.