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Date: October 4, 2022
This has gotta be fake? What are his options? Admits he likes skinny e-girls or what? That he’s secretly a pedo? Your obsession over this is wild. Just break up your obviously fixating and just won’t let it go.
You should have sniffed his crotch. On the other hand if I was going to make up a reason for not coming home all night I certainly wouldn't say that I went to a brothel. So if he's telling the truth about that and not trying to cover that part up it's likely he didn't do anything.
Put your thumbs up here so people realize this is a troll post.
Ugh, yes 🙁
I would completely agree with you there.
So at 38 he is still a people pleaser because he was bullied, and wont get help to deal with it from a professional on his own, even tho it has hurt you and your relationship in a few different ways.
Look, he was willing to humiliate you to the builders that you have to be around to make them like him. When you call him out on it, he acknowledges that it is bad and is ashamed, but then instead of doing anything to take care of you, your feelings and needs, he instead feels so bad that he is wallowing in a pool of self pity, because he hurt your feelings? One that you have to pick him out from? What does that mean, not stand your grund and let it go? Not demand change? Say that its fine that he hurt your feelings and humiliated you, you're not angry, its ok?
Your husband is almost 40. While he might have genuine issues with people pleasing, he is still using a fairly common manipulation tacktic of hurting your feelings and/or fucking up in ways that impact yoy, and hating himself so much for doing so that you have to let it go or pick him back up again. He also knows he has this issue that is impacting you and your life, and is still not making an active choise to work on it with a therapist.
At the end of the day, he has to take some actual accountability and concrete steps to work on his issues, and you need to not just excuse and allow him to hurt you because he was bullied as a child. At some point he needs to take responsibility of the hurt he is causing too, what he did was essentially bullying you.
But I feel guilty everytime I want to leave him. Cause then he starts to blame me that I am being selfish. I cant even describe in words how mentally f-d up I am rn. I dont wanna feel alone and also I dont wanna be with him.
I'm sorry I replied to you specifically. I was responding to all the comments in general saying “how can this be” and “no way” etc. and happened to click yours.
We all need to drop the disbelief because in most of our fucked up patriarchal cultures, this kind of shit is the norm against women.
It got to me that so many of the comments were like that, like this is something out of the ordinary when it's another Tuesday all over the world for women.
I completely understand but choosing to breakip with me over moving in with me doesnt feel like she really loved me as much as she sais. I constantly broke my boundaries just to not lose her and she never does, she never does things she isnt comfy doing just to not loose me , she never sacrifices anything for the sake of us being together and i was the only one doing that through our relationship. I asked her if we cans ee eachother three times a week she disagreed so we only see eachother when she wants to
Girl. I was in a relationship once and felt myself falling in love with my best friend. I made the jump. Broke up with my boyfriend, took some time, and confessed my feelings. I’m engaged to my best friend now, getting married this year.
Honestly. Follow your heart. It may not work out perfectly but at least you’ll have tried.
You don’t have to take this path. It’s not an easy path, but there’s no reason to shame anyone else for investing the time and energy to try to help the rest of us by helping their relative.
The resource isn’t for the Cousin. That won’t penetrate. It’s for her loved ones. The guide does not say to have a one-time conversation about boundaries and then peace out until she comes to her senses all alone. That’s not going to happen. Cousin is in a similar situation to a DV situation. It takes a long time and consistent outreach from loved ones for most people to leave or for their kids to know they have a safe place to go when they need it.
So, OP takes cousin her and her kids to the park. every so often. She answers her extreme views when they come up. She says, “N is a Nazi and that’s scary and I’m worried for you and your kids. I won’t be around N but I’m here for you if you ever have questions about the things he says or if you want a different view.“
This is a long term play, not a quick fix. It may be years before she or her kids come out of it.
The guide says: “Family and friends can also help by providing “breaks from the echo chamber,” said Foley Martinez. Going on walks, watching a TV show together or taking a family trip are all opportunities for the person to temporarily step away from their ideology.
Foley Martinez encouraged establishing boundaries with your loved one. If they continue to engage in harmful language or behaviors, you may need to distance yourself from them. Even then, she recommends still reaching out from time to time to let them know you still care. “Yes, people need to be held accountable for their actions, but there also needs to be a pathway back,” she said. “If we don’t offer a pathway back, then where is there to go? There’s only darker and more violent places to go.”
They fucked and then someone asked for a 3 some but it would break their forgiven love
That is all you can do. And as I said, she is not being a good friend. But I’ve known guys who do actually wait for moments like these to “swoop in and save the damsel in distress” aka prey on women when they are vulnerable.
I’m not saying you would do that, but sadly the guys who do, ruin the trust women might have given you.
When the hormones calm down and she sees that you respected her wishes to back off, she will probably come and apologize. But I maintain, you don’t want this kind of drama in your life. It is fair for you to say “I don’t appreciate how you treat me. Not as a friend, not as a former lover, not as a person. I feel that you have used and abused my trust.” Then it is up to you how to move forward.
Good luck OP
As soon as she leaves, dump her.
You want a relationship where both parties are equal, and she’s not providing that.
And her actions lately if it’s not a bipolar episode, seriously hints at her cheating on you.
But regardless – it’s time to put yourself first. So dump her, and find someone else who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.