You’re over thinking. He’s a friend with benefits, Not worth the thought whatsoever.
You’re a piece of pussy for him, just as he’s a piece of dick for you. Anything past that is more than a friend with benefits & you’ve gotta check yourself & your feelings. Be honest with yourself.
You will miss out, that's the sacrifice this will take. You know this dynamic leads you to settling for her. These future times would still revolve around you either avoiding her or hooking up with her. It hurts but friendships come and go for what we need. You are posting here because you know something needs to change.
everyones shitting on you OP but plenty of women wouldn’t feel comfortable with their partner having a female best friend that regularly includes physical contact, so. i’d talk to the bf about it more or just excuse yourself from the relationship.
Guy has zero empathy and is likely a narcissist. Run away and don’t look back. Consider yourself lucky that you didn’t find out after marriage or after a child. This way you can make a clean break with zero contact.
Lol no but I have lots of male friends and I recognize the boundaries that come when they get married. Of course a friendship will change when one person gets married
Do you have a partner? Do you date? How do they feel about your relationship with him?
Oh god, don’t say thaaaat. Fuck. Yeah, but if she doesn’t know then it doesn’t count? I mean, they have a lot of issues in their marriage. Like one of their friends husbands got caught cheating and her reaction was “you better never get caught” instead of “you better never cheat”, like they don’t seem super compatible, and I’m not trying to say this is an excuse, but aren’t I just a symptom? 🙁 I feel bad but, I never felt this way with a man before and I just feel like I kind of deserve some pleasure in my life, not just pain or whatever
Don't even think of doing that. Just sit and watch the space.
Same. 38 here and absolutely killing it. Only gonna get better next year too!!
You’re over thinking. He’s a friend with benefits, Not worth the thought whatsoever.
You’re a piece of pussy for him, just as he’s a piece of dick for you. Anything past that is more than a friend with benefits & you’ve gotta check yourself & your feelings. Be honest with yourself.
You will miss out, that's the sacrifice this will take. You know this dynamic leads you to settling for her. These future times would still revolve around you either avoiding her or hooking up with her. It hurts but friendships come and go for what we need. You are posting here because you know something needs to change.
I’ve discovered he dated this very young girl he never told me anything I’ve just discovered recently
everyones shitting on you OP but plenty of women wouldn’t feel comfortable with their partner having a female best friend that regularly includes physical contact, so. i’d talk to the bf about it more or just excuse yourself from the relationship.
Guy has zero empathy and is likely a narcissist. Run away and don’t look back. Consider yourself lucky that you didn’t find out after marriage or after a child. This way you can make a clean break with zero contact.
Lol no but I have lots of male friends and I recognize the boundaries that come when they get married. Of course a friendship will change when one person gets married
Do you have a partner? Do you date? How do they feel about your relationship with him?
Oh god, don’t say thaaaat. Fuck. Yeah, but if she doesn’t know then it doesn’t count? I mean, they have a lot of issues in their marriage. Like one of their friends husbands got caught cheating and her reaction was “you better never get caught” instead of “you better never cheat”, like they don’t seem super compatible, and I’m not trying to say this is an excuse, but aren’t I just a symptom? 🙁 I feel bad but, I never felt this way with a man before and I just feel like I kind of deserve some pleasure in my life, not just pain or whatever
You’re dealing with teenage shit because you’re fucking with teenagers, weirdo