hello, i am a trans man, and ive had a past relationship like you with my own mother; she is very supportive now and tries her best to research and understand things beyond just knowing me as her son, but it seems you are not doing that
ive read your comments here and it seems you are caring for your grandparents more than your son, which is the issue he is having— im sorry, but your child should matter more than your parents/partners parents, because in truth they will not be here forever, and if you are risking that for the sake of them over your son, he is right to feel you do not care and that you dont support him, as you are suggesting he has to bend to the ways of his elders
if you want to have a relationship with him, you HAVE to tell your grandparents that they cannot be mean, transphobic, or ANYTHING of the sort to your son, and if they cannot accept him, they cannot see or talk to him; do not let grandparents verbally abuse your child, you are a mother first and their daughter/DIL second, and i would suggest therapy for both you and your son to go together
if you cannot do these things, i dont believe he will regain trust in you, unless you are going to show you will stand up for him against people who are HURTING your son
Sounds like a winner. 8 months is nothing, don’t over romanticize it.
hello, i am a trans man, and ive had a past relationship like you with my own mother; she is very supportive now and tries her best to research and understand things beyond just knowing me as her son, but it seems you are not doing that
ive read your comments here and it seems you are caring for your grandparents more than your son, which is the issue he is having— im sorry, but your child should matter more than your parents/partners parents, because in truth they will not be here forever, and if you are risking that for the sake of them over your son, he is right to feel you do not care and that you dont support him, as you are suggesting he has to bend to the ways of his elders
if you want to have a relationship with him, you HAVE to tell your grandparents that they cannot be mean, transphobic, or ANYTHING of the sort to your son, and if they cannot accept him, they cannot see or talk to him; do not let grandparents verbally abuse your child, you are a mother first and their daughter/DIL second, and i would suggest therapy for both you and your son to go together
if you cannot do these things, i dont believe he will regain trust in you, unless you are going to show you will stand up for him against people who are HURTING your son
I’m sorry if you actually believe that I will throw in the Golden Gate Bridge for free.
Far too many lies about something important to even consider moving in with him. Never mind that moving in after 6 months is just, well, stupid.