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Date: October 17, 2022
The way you are is what you offer to someone else. He didn’t pick an trait that fades like beauty , he picked that you are dependable and supportive. I am using those terms but I can surmise that’s what he thinks of you. Those aren’t the sexiest terms but they should be on the list for ideal partners. Is he good to you? Or he could mean no one ekk ll se would tolerate his shit?
Indeed! If it was in response to a convo, then why didn't he just pull his wife aside and run that bright idea to her before purchasing them? Why did he not show them to his wife along with the other gifts? None of what he says explained that aspect.
Nevertheless I am not sure wife should make it any more weird for friend than it is by bringing it up to her again unless the friend brings it up first. But she should definitely deal with her husband about how inappropriate and embarrassed he made her feel about it.
I don't play well with jerks… You could try some malicious compliance. Go ahead and pay for all of this crap. Don't complain about it AT ALL. Smile and hand him the money. Then the next time you're around his friends or relatives and money comes up, or they ask if you go out with your friends, etc- you'll know the question when you hear it. You say, “gosh, I never have anything left over from my paycheck to get anything for myself. I have to use it to spoil hubby. He insists that he be paid back for the time I was a stay at home mom. I hope it's over soon. I really need new [insert necessity here].” You should probably reword it, but a little public humiliation usually does the trick.
Yeah I'm team GF here. You got them a grand in thank you presents and eclared it “not that expensive”, but couldn't get her a nice gift for Christmas?
Does he get any alone time right now? Because from this post it doesn't look like it. Alone time is healthy for both of you. You basically rely on him to keep you company in all his free time. And this has nothing to do with the fact that he doesn't want to spend time with you – right now he spends 99% of his free time with you – but he also wants to be his own person too. Do something to get out of the house couple of times per week, like obviously I don't know your schedule but go shopping, go to the cinema etc.
If you have children with him, he will abuse them too.
Jokes are supposed to be funny. Killing your family and burning their bodies are not a joke
You can break up with anyone for any reason, you don't have to justify it.
However, I think you're making the right choice in breaking up if it makes you feel any better.
She's under her family's thumb, and using you as her escape. And while it would be great if you could just constantly be her security blanket and whisk her away into a fantasy, that's now how life works. She's extremely insecure, and isn't learning how to really flourish into her own person because A – she's in a shitty home situation and B – she's relying on you to manage her feelings.
Neither of those are healthy situations. You can't fix the first one, she's just going to have to figure something out whether it be finally moving out either into an apartment or going away to a college or something, but you can fix the second one by setting her free.
It's harsh, but you can't “save” her. And trying to will only hurt you more.
Also been asked things that wouldve correlated to times of the previous relationship that I've answered to, unknowingly adding to what gets thought and pictured by.
lol and you’re 31??
Bro are you kidding me? Are you that conceding? You bf seems very mature and responsible with the cards he’s been given. You guys have shitty roommates and neither of you are in a position to move sense you are a full time student at school and you have back problems that keep you from working more hours which he had to support you for three months and he tells you to just keep your thoughts to yourself to avoid rocking the boat..because you guys can’t do anything about the position your in and on his birthday you get absolutely shit faced and start bad mouthing your already shitty roommates making things more complicated for him later and you expect him to defend and support your shitty behavior..ON HIS DAMN BIRTHDAY!! Dude really? Like your mindset man. I don’t mean to be so harsh I’m usually not on Reddit but your post is ridiculous dude your making this all about you when from what it sounds like your bf is trying his best to take care of you already
I feel your pain.
Don't try to force the guilt and pain go away.
Sit with it.
Heal.
Slowly relearn to enjoy the things that make you happy.
Then, without any effort on your part, something very good will happen to you.
I'm so happy for you that you are safe that I'm actually crying tears of joy, and I don't know you. I want to send you a big hug. You are so brave. It will take some time to heal, what happened to you is deeply traumatizing, but stick to therapy, you'll get there and be happy. Keep the sun shinning in your life!
Do you need to be in a relationship right now? I know that's very hot to hear, but you have a lot going on and it doesn't sound like he is supporting you.
You are so young. Find help. Find a counselor who you can dump all these feelings on and get guidance. You really have more going on than most and need some support. Find a free counseling service if you don't have insurance.
What the hell… his reaction is very extreme. I am a pretty traditional guy myself and am happy to do all the handiwork needed, but I wouldn't shit on my girl for helping out or doing it if she wanted to, ESPECIALLY after I had a back injury? Either he is INSANELY insecure, has massive anger issues, or wants to end the relationship for some reason. I don't really see how you doing some handiwork would demasculate him in any way… sounds like a personal issue
Didn’t you do the same thing? You were told by your team leader not to say anything and you did as well.
It's pretty obvious that he's not over her and that's not a good look for your relationship.
However what did you expect when you asked him if he would have been with the ex if she hadn't cheated on him ?
Op
You really want to get married and be a married woman don't you?.
You need to start valuing yourself and get up and walk away from this nightmare of a life you are in.. You'd have a better life ahead of you if you saved up went to Vegas and married your drinking partner you met that day. That's how shit your relationship and your life is right now.
You want to get married, ffs go to Vegas and marry the first stranger you have a laugh with.
That's not true in the least.
I have a range of health issues (including debilitating migraines) and I still manage to be pleasant to others instead of “organizing (my) things” (how much crap does OP carry to work, anyway?), growling and stalking off to bed.
“MADE you take 3 days off”???? Come on…..?
Start by seeing yourself as an actual person and not just your boyfriend's girlfriend.
You're a separate person with a whole inner and–hopefully–outer life of your own that isn't defined by you being in this relationship, and you shouldn't need your boyfriend to be around in order to appreciate your own existence.
Validate yourself by doing things you like and want to do, e.g. self-care, engaging with your hobbies, seeing your friends or family, and stop sitting around waiting for him to validate you for you.
Take your boyfriend's weekend trip as an opportunity to break free from the habit of texting each other 24/7. Even in a long distance relationship, that kind of constant contact and availability just isn't healthy. It's not sustainable either, and this upcoming weekend trip is basically the perfect example of why.
This is absolutely on me. I know that. I have to say that when I last tried to leave I said what you’ve just said. That this wasn’t fair, that we both deserved better, that he deserved to be loved fully and if he felt like this I would want him to leave me, and didn’t he want to be with someone who matched him fully rather than this show, he told me ‘eh I dunno, as long as I’m happy’. It’s a really strange sitch where he’s really okay living in this denial. But I do hear you. Thank you.
It’s time invested that unfortunately didn’t seem to go anywhere but why invest more that you also can’t get back. Know yourself and be okay with things not working at times. Sometimes things are beyond your ability to control or understand.