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HisDiamond4ever, 29 y.o.
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Date: October 14, 2022
HisDiamond4ever, 29 y.o.
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Ok but you can't time travel and change that. Just chalk it up to experience and next time youre with a guy who turns out to be selfish remember how gross it made you feel and bail.
These kinda stuffs are somethings I went through myself as well. There's not much you can do about it. It'll eat your heart away and eventually it consumes you enough but you can't do anything. Only those who have gone through the same phase in life will understand this. It's not just about the text as well isn't it? She also not answering your calls and not getting a call back. It must be eating you inside. Myriads of thoughts passes you by but you're helpless. Your only option is to wait for her to either answer your call or to call you back. And make sure to do FaceTime as well. Next, once she comes back, you guys need to have a moment together to talk about this very situation. In the meantime, make yourself busy with some hobbies or movies and try spending as much time with family and friends.
He is not the one.
You were on a breeeeaaaaaak!!!!!!!
Yeah, take the L and don’t bring it up.
But it’s important you realise this isn’t actually a loss. It’s a win, just not in the way you might like.
You approached and you asked. That’s a W no matter how you slice it. You did the thing.
You have no idea what she’s going to say. You can’t deontology that. So it’s important to acknowledge that you did what 90% of guys wouldn’t do. You asked.
That’s impressive and it’s gutsy. Well done.
Cut ties man. Seriously wtf is this? Your ex is taking advantage of you and you can’t see that? My god if I was her no way would I be involved with you at all. Maybe I would actually do I could marry, divorce you and have you support me for the rest of my life.
She’s your ex wife, the only thing that involves her you should be worried about is your kids, other than that it is not your problem. She needs to grow up or find another dude to bankroll her life.
Shellfish behavior? No need to be derogatory just because they on-line in an expensive area by the ocean
I disagree with this tell him/her, he/she has a right to know bandwagon. What will happen if you keep quiet? Nothing. Is her BIL going to shit on himself? It’s not likely he’s going to rush to spill the beans as many Redditors here suggest. What happens is she tells? Family drama, sibling estrangement, marital problems and permanent changes in relationship over a kiss. Just avoid being alone with him in future. If he comes to your house when your husband is out tell him you’re just going out. I have a feeling he won’t dare to repeat it again.
Move on. Let her get back with him. You’re being disrespected and gaslighted.
I took my (29m) partner (29f) back after she cheated and
Uh oh.
resounding advice to END IT
Excellent. Glad that you well heeded our advice and …
I didn't head that advice
Oh sh*t.
emotions got the better of me, I still loved
Uh oh … addiction/dependency.
would occasionally pop into my head when watching movies or TV where infidelity was present
Trauma. She traumatized you. Nothin' for you to be ashamed of, she seriously did you wrong, and yeah, it caused some damage – and you've not yet fully recovered from it.
thought of us being at a wedding feels almost embarrassing
And rightly so.
felt like I wanted to attend social events alone rather than as a couple. Maybe I somehow felt embarrassed.
Yep.
she'd been texting the guy again
Apparently, it's nothing more than that
guy was saved under a different name, and almost all messages were deleted
Uh huh … and why's that? 'Cause she has nothing to hide? Yeah, right.
love this person
addiction/dependency
she
stupid
Yes, that's long been established for her.
love the girl
There's that addiction/dependency thing again.
says all the right things
Oh, except for the lies, dishonesty, cheating, withholding of relevant information … not to mention what she does and fails to do.
feels fu**** beyond repair
Well, if it feels like a duck, walks like a duck, sounds like a duck, looks like a duck, … yeah, it's fu**** beyond repair.
know what comments I will receive here
Uhm, … see previous comments. 🙂
don't want to taint people's opinions of her
Oh, you can taint away … but no need, she'a already done that to herself. Her true colors will very much show through – you needn't assist her with that.
love her
There's that addiction/dependency thing again. You should fix that. Like go cold turkey from that drug.
And you should get her the hell out'a your place … unless you really don't want to online there anymore … in which case get yourself the hell out'a there.
And yeah, in case there was any question about it – it's over … I think you also got advised about that earlier. 😉
Good luck … and get her the hell out'a your life.
And, hopefully your next post, we won't be needing to tell you to refer to the advice and responses on your earlier posts.
No! You need to adjust your man right out of the door
I don’t think it’s gaslighting because I don’t think he’s intentionally trying to make me think otherwise. I think that he honestly believes that none of the issues I have are his fault at all
He’s upset because he’s going for a work trip and he’d rather relax the day before then spend a whole day out. Theres nothing wrong with that and I’d assume if he’s giving you the silent treatment it’s likely because you have a habit for wanting to only meet him to go out and do stuff that creates stress and pressure for him considering you both work busy schedules. Seems like he likes to use his days off to relax while you see days off as a reason to be active.
And there’s nothing wrong with wanting sex. Women constantly see it as a bad thing or that it implies men only see them for sex but some men are just more sexual and see that as a way to feel loved as opposed to constantly having to go out and give their woman a great day/night out.
Anyways, it just sounds like the both of you are not compatible.
I'm not hurt. I said you are gaslighting OP by incorrectly putting words in her mouth. She literally said she went there willingly. Reluctant accepting or doing something is very different to forced into doing something. The difference is who makes the final decision. I'm sorry you were raped but that doesn't improve your logic.