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Date: October 28, 2022
It’s a red flag. Sorry. You have to fix this together, if you want to have a chance to make it long term.
Block him. Do not respond. He is trying to manipulate you. Don’t fall into trying to he nice to him or giving him the benefit of the doubt.
He hasn’t changed and you already know who he is.
He is not really your friend.
Understandable. It wasn’t an intention of “let’s get baked” more so a quick 2 hits to calm anxiety outside while nobody was home. Nobody bats an eyelash over taking anti depressants or other pharmaceutical medications and I view marijuana as the same thing as medicine. Though again I can see and appreciate the other side.
Do the math on their ages. She was 23 at BEST when they met. She has pretty reasonable insecurities
Oh, this is definitely a pattern. Read her post history.
Don’t worry, he’ll do it for you
this. she said she didn’t wanna buy and apt but loaned him the money to do so… so it sounds like… she also went in and bought the apt.
Of course you made the right decision, forget about his town vs your city for a minute. He made a life altering decision with 0 input from you. He wants to buy land and build a house and at no point thought let me discuss this with my GF. Maybe you would have been on board maybe you would want to help design it nothing. That alone is enough to realize you made the right decision.
Jesus. Dude, WTF you doing anywhere near a woman like this?
Dump her.
I can only assume you must be some sort of crazy for even entertaining this woman for a minute.
You've been together for 6 months and thinking he is the one. Relax a little. Slow it down.
This is classic trap people fall into. They fall madly in love with someone (honey moon), and they base their entire relationship off that.
But where the trap comes into play, is that sometimes the relationship is shit once the butterflies wear off.
Then people cling on to that original spark and define their entire reality around it. Except, once you settle into each-other, the relationship shifts and some ignore the obvious for the sake of that thrill they felt in the beginning.
You're 21. Known the dude for 6 months. Thinking about marriage.
You still hardly know each-other… Its literally the infant stages of a relationship.
Also, he is 23… Of course people who have a close relationship with their family and be scared to leave the nest.
What you need to figure out, is what kind of mommas boy he is.
Is he the kind to rely on mom for everything, and I am mean everything… Because if he doesn't grow up, he will likely rely on you for those things.
Or.
Is he a mommas boy in the sense that he just wants to be around her and take care of her.
Because if he's taking care of her, who are you to judge that? In fact, I would argue that is the exact kind of guy you should go after.
I love my mom. She don't baby me. But I take care of her and would do anything she asked.
You're 21 years old. Marriage should be the last of your thoughts.
Wanna know whose marriage is likely to end in divorce?
Young couples. Look it up. Highest fail rate out there.
You're looking sooooo far into the future, to the point where you're neglecting the present.
Focus on your relationship and its chemistry. That is all you need to worry about.
Throw the idea of marriage out the window.
Life and relationships are a marathon. Not a sprint. If you're going to end up married, you'll get there eventually if it was meant to be.
Focus on the foundation of your relationship and how he makes you feel. That's it. Fuck his family, that shit can always be dealt with.
Figure out how well you two work as a couple.
And you can start by communicating these thoughts (In a non overall attached way.) Because if a girl I've been with for 6 months stared talking about moving in and marriage (even if its down the road)… I would be like “woah.”
So, be conscious of that.
This, completely understand:
if I'm being insecure or this is too much, I don't have this close of a relationship with my family at all.
My family. See eachother once a month (if lucky). GFs, weekly basis and goes to movies together (ages 25=35).
Seemed like a lot at the time, but you can fall in love with it if you give it a chance.
Chemistry. Relationship dynamics. How well you two fit in the others lives.
That is all you need to do right now. One day at a time.
Try to fit in. And work on your communication.
If you're not 100% ready to break up with him and walk away, don't bother confronting him yet because he will just lie &/or make excuses about his actions then in the future he will be more careful to delete anything incriminating.