You better work on yourself or it will affect ypur marriage especially your baby. Therapy is good but also talk to your spouse, dont alienate him. Suggest to take things slow and do the things you both love to do together.
Either he will die or he won't. You can wait to see what happens.
If he dies, do what you need to process your double grief.
But if he pulls through it, then you should leave him. You saving his life was something you would have done for anyone. Him proposing to you isn't a reason not to leave–you don't want to be tied to a cheating husband.
I just…what do you want here? I need a 45 minute nap to just process the absolute lunacy. “You don’t want to lose her”? Wtf!? And wtf led up to this? because this most definitely wasn’t out of the blue.
That's a very hot one. Fetishes don't really go away. I wish I didn't have the fetishes I have. They can evolve into other things but yeah. It doesn't sound like the two of you are sexually compatible. If you want to stay married I'd highly suggest couples therapy with a therapist who specializes in sex & fetishes.
Maybe keep a box in your house for her stuff once’s it’s full give it to her, if you find stuff after just throw it away. Tbh this kinda sounds like you’re just trying to find ways to talk to her again.
This is the perfect way to describe “girl best friends” that can apply to soooo many posts here. You put it into words exactly
You better work on yourself or it will affect ypur marriage especially your baby. Therapy is good but also talk to your spouse, dont alienate him. Suggest to take things slow and do the things you both love to do together.
Either he will die or he won't. You can wait to see what happens.
If he dies, do what you need to process your double grief.
But if he pulls through it, then you should leave him. You saving his life was something you would have done for anyone. Him proposing to you isn't a reason not to leave–you don't want to be tied to a cheating husband.
I just…what do you want here? I need a 45 minute nap to just process the absolute lunacy. “You don’t want to lose her”? Wtf!? And wtf led up to this? because this most definitely wasn’t out of the blue.
That's a very hot one. Fetishes don't really go away. I wish I didn't have the fetishes I have. They can evolve into other things but yeah. It doesn't sound like the two of you are sexually compatible. If you want to stay married I'd highly suggest couples therapy with a therapist who specializes in sex & fetishes.
It is unbelievably weird that she put up *any* fight for this at all. Not only does she not respect your feelings on this but one of two things:
She wants him to be jealous and want her after seeing her get married. She's not over him and wants him to want her after seeing her get married.
Maybe keep a box in your house for her stuff once’s it’s full give it to her, if you find stuff after just throw it away. Tbh this kinda sounds like you’re just trying to find ways to talk to her again.