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You’re so generous ? maybe you can help pay m electric bill . I’m joking, while I do need help badly I would never expect such a thing. I’m sorry you were treated that way, but hey I’m glad she showed her true colors before you got married. Aside from that if she had the money to give you a check I’m quite sure she should’ve been able to buy her own house, I think she was just trying to use you for whatever she could.
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You’re going to therapy with a very manipulative person who has managed to manipulate the therapist too. You need your own therapist. And you really aren’t ready for a healthy relationship. It’s obvious from your comments. You don’t know how to hold up boundaries, you don’t know what toxic behavior looks like.
You can’t just will yourself a healthy relationship and children. You have to work to make yourself into the kind of person that can maintain that. A mentally healthy person would have seen the red flags with him immediately, but unfortunately you didn’t. Staying with him is a huge mistake.
Take a step back and try to look at this from the perspective of an outsider. You're very wrapped up in getting him to forgive you for something you didn't do. That's disordered thinking. You don't have to “regain his trust”, he should be the one trying to regain your trust. You've done nothing wrong. He's unfairly accusing you of something and therefore he's the one who should apologize. If he won't do that and own up to being overly paranoid about this you need to strongly reconsider this relationship. 'Cause it won't stop just over this. People this suspicious always escalate. Unless you handle this now, including being willing to break up over it, you're going to find yourself monitored, surveilled, accused and threatened at every turn with this guy. This is the first sign that he's controlling. Don't ignore it.
As a 46 year old woman I can’t imagine dating someone that young. The youngest I will date is 30..current partner is 39.
Yeah what she is doing isn’t fair. You need to talk to her about it because she is basically acting like your girlfriend while (I am assuming here because you never specifically said in the post) going out and getting with other guys. You obviously like this girl and she definitely knows that considering you asked her out and presumably enjoy spending so much time with her but she is taking advantage of that and is using you as a kind of placeholder boyfriend and a fallback of sorts so she can still “act single” as she says but still has a makeshift boyfriend at home for her. Or, if she is not getting with other guys, maybe she does want to take your relationship to the next level, I think it really depends on whether she is not seeing anyone else because if she is then her getting jealous of you talking to other girls is fucked up and not fair whatsoever on you. You definitely just need to talk to her
Talk to her about this thing and see if you both can work through it as a couple. That is one option.
You could also take a step back and sort yourself out. Does this happen with other people?
I always look at things like this in this way. How can you ever trust her again? She cheated on you completley destroyed your trust made you look like a fool. Is that not gonna play on your mind everytime she goes out alone without you? Do you want to be in a relationship with no trust? Cause that is toxic and not fun, trust me its bad.
Dump him. There isn’t a middle ground here to reach. He’s being a huge AH and you would be better off without that in your life
I basically said this but the response I got was what I described. How do i explain this to someone who is not familiar with the concept of equity?
I'm not attributing this to malice when she could be just ignorant but at this point IDC and I was called selfish and I feel hurt.