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Date: November 4, 2022
Brah why bother with him he needs therapy
Yeah that’s the jist i got too.
I told her a while after it happened that I didn’t feel like she was trying to understand me
So first thing I agree with you that this situation sounds super sketch and I would be concerned too. But I feel like your approach here has made this whole thing into a you-versus-her thing as opposed to what your intention is, which is genuine concern for her.
I think the more you tell her “you're dismissing me, I feel unheard” the more she is going to become defensive and reject that. It's not really about understanding you. If she agrees with you, if she says, “yes, you were right”, she basically has to acknowledge a bunch of scary things, like, she might be a little naive, she might be unprepared in a bad situation… you know what I mean? Denial is kind of understandable in that context.
So I would suggest saying something like “Hey, I feel like I haven't handled this quite right. I just want you to know I was genuinely really scared with the FB marketplace situation. I don't want anything bad to happen to you, and I really thought that it might in that situation. That's where I was coming from.” And leave it at that. Don't go into “I want you to listen to me”, etc. Even if she replies with “okay, but I still think you were wrong”… still, just leave it there, don't get back into the argument. Just say what your intention was and let her process that.
If this is a larger conversation in your relationship then have that larger conversation separately. I think it's valid you want to be heard, especially if this is a repeated issue. But when a specific situation has become a source of disagreement for you it's hard to bring it up again without going back into arguing, and I think that doesn't get your point across.
Is this enough of a problem to warrant a break up? Because it sounds like he's not going to change and you've already had the conversation with him…twice.
Problem is that the 1 guy and 2 girls format is WAY more advanced performance for a guy. Every guy thinks they can do it, and the fact is, many of them are wrong. Guys getting their ego bruised in that format is common.
“And I take her to my swingers party and she’s the main attraction. And young women bounce back from birth better. Getting pregnant is a woman’s purpose didn’t you know?!”
I’m not even kidding. Don’t read his comments if you don’t want to enter into a rage.
How is not wanting to keep babying an adult a treat?
If you’re willing to play it out for a couple weeks to see what happens with the living arrangements then I think your invested enough to plan a group event. Maybe go see a band somewhere. I think it’s important for mates to have references. If your the side chick it’s unlikely you’ll ever meet anyone.
There is such a thing as healthy boundaries.