Dude you need to sit her down and tell her that she needs to buck up. Six years is getting to old for biting. Does she do that to other kids to get her way? Does her mom even socialize her?
The biting to get toys is BAD at six because it tells me if she can't see can't control that aspect of her child then what else is she doing wrong?
What responsibility? The mother was apparently not ready to be a parent ,so they went to court and made it formal . His priority is the best interest of his kid . And it is quite damaging to have a mother in your life that is not even sure she wants to be around . I think he did good at every step of the way .
I want to first say that this is not your fault in any way. Your past is your past, its not something you can change and its never something you should be ashamed about.
I can understand your partners POV, that there has to be a base of trust and comfortability and part of that is being honest about who you are (including your past). However that is never a reason to guilt someone into talking about their past until YOU feel ready to share.
Its the sad truth that sometimes our past is too much for some people, but thats not your problem thats hers, and for some people your past might barley scratch the surface. You should have to apologize for telling her exactly what shes been wanting to hear. Just have an honest conversation that its who you are in the past but that its not who you are. If she cant accept that you need to leave, because you deserve someone who accept you.
I pity the brother’s family. Unless a different man in his brother’s house I’ll bet those kids and their mother aren’t enjoying his sojourn there very much.
Literally all the fucking men in this comment section i swear. I have always felt very insecure about wearing mini dresses and i dress quite conservatively usually bt my husband is the one hyping me up when i go on girls nights out. He tells me i look good in a little black dress because he knows i only ever really dress up as a way to boost my confidence especially if I've had a shit run of things. We keep in contact and i know i can call him at any time if i need him. Jst like i dont keep track of him on his boys nights out. If his gf did this see how all these men call her childish…
Now I'm glad my husband is not an insecure little manchild who thinks I'm gonna go fuck around simply because im wearing a dress and some feels and do they even know how hot a goddamn club gets? Wtf wld u wear a coat?! I'm perfectly capable of saying no to any mans advances which we all know guys can come up to u in a grocery store or a coffee shop too. ??♀️
If OP had an issue with his gf just dipping out and him texting her to find out if she was safe or not. This would be a different conversation. But no he's concerned with what she wears when going out with friends because she's only supposed to dress that way for him?
Because she needs him approval?
God I'm glad I'm married! I can't with these bs dating standards and these insecure men. ?
You better learn to put your money where your mouth is.
All I see is a lot of lip service. No action.
You need to engage in concrete actions, not promises.
I would keep your trap shut and be prepared to show your new apartment lease.
Dude you need to sit her down and tell her that she needs to buck up. Six years is getting to old for biting. Does she do that to other kids to get her way? Does her mom even socialize her?
The biting to get toys is BAD at six because it tells me if she can't see can't control that aspect of her child then what else is she doing wrong?
What responsibility? The mother was apparently not ready to be a parent ,so they went to court and made it formal . His priority is the best interest of his kid . And it is quite damaging to have a mother in your life that is not even sure she wants to be around . I think he did good at every step of the way .
I want to first say that this is not your fault in any way. Your past is your past, its not something you can change and its never something you should be ashamed about.
I can understand your partners POV, that there has to be a base of trust and comfortability and part of that is being honest about who you are (including your past). However that is never a reason to guilt someone into talking about their past until YOU feel ready to share.
Its the sad truth that sometimes our past is too much for some people, but thats not your problem thats hers, and for some people your past might barley scratch the surface. You should have to apologize for telling her exactly what shes been wanting to hear. Just have an honest conversation that its who you are in the past but that its not who you are. If she cant accept that you need to leave, because you deserve someone who accept you.
I don’t have issues sleeping with them
I pity the brother’s family. Unless a different man in his brother’s house I’ll bet those kids and their mother aren’t enjoying his sojourn there very much.
Literally all the fucking men in this comment section i swear. I have always felt very insecure about wearing mini dresses and i dress quite conservatively usually bt my husband is the one hyping me up when i go on girls nights out. He tells me i look good in a little black dress because he knows i only ever really dress up as a way to boost my confidence especially if I've had a shit run of things. We keep in contact and i know i can call him at any time if i need him. Jst like i dont keep track of him on his boys nights out. If his gf did this see how all these men call her childish…
Now I'm glad my husband is not an insecure little manchild who thinks I'm gonna go fuck around simply because im wearing a dress and some feels and do they even know how hot a goddamn club gets? Wtf wld u wear a coat?! I'm perfectly capable of saying no to any mans advances which we all know guys can come up to u in a grocery store or a coffee shop too. ??♀️
If OP had an issue with his gf just dipping out and him texting her to find out if she was safe or not. This would be a different conversation. But no he's concerned with what she wears when going out with friends because she's only supposed to dress that way for him?
Because she needs him approval?
God I'm glad I'm married! I can't with these bs dating standards and these insecure men. ?