He didn't tell her because she obviously didn't give two shits about his situation and he knew it. She never even asked or tried to help him with this problem. She's pissed that he asked an ex to help him because it makes her look bad that she said no. It makes her look even worse that she said no and is mad about where he got the help that she wouldn't give him. She's hella immature.
If even his girlfriend “don't gotta drop everything,” who the fuck else is supposed to? Especially on short notice.
Like a lot of people, I've only got a few people I could ask in my own city and they've either got work or kids to worry about. If they can't help on short notice, I won't resent them for it but I'm definitely not worried about their opinions while I try to fix a big problem on a short timeline. And you bet your ass one of my exes is on that list. He's a good guy I trust to keep me safe, why wouldn't he be? HIS wife wouldn't be a suspicious asshole about it either, because none of us are crazy.
If it were up to you or OP, this guy wouldn't have been able to get his dental surgery. Don't come at me with this bullshit.
You shouldn’t be engaged to someone for knowing them for 2 years imo. Also she does not love you period. Anyone who says “imma fuck someone else and come back with you once I’m done” is not in love. She’s treating you like a doormat and you seem to accept it and you shouldn’t. Have some self respect and leave
People are going on about how he might like you and that may be true, but I would also be pissed that someone I hate is coming over to my house, especially if I knew it was going to be a regular occurrence.
This is becoming boring and unoriginal .
how do you plan a future with someone like this?
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What do you mean “how”? Personally, I would not even THINK of planning ANY kind of future with someone like your bf.
I would never choose a bf over my dad.
If he doesn't like my dad just because he doesn't get “space” for ONE night a month, then guess what? We're done. Overs. Relationship over. Period.
He didn't tell her because she obviously didn't give two shits about his situation and he knew it. She never even asked or tried to help him with this problem. She's pissed that he asked an ex to help him because it makes her look bad that she said no. It makes her look even worse that she said no and is mad about where he got the help that she wouldn't give him. She's hella immature.
If even his girlfriend “don't gotta drop everything,” who the fuck else is supposed to? Especially on short notice.
Like a lot of people, I've only got a few people I could ask in my own city and they've either got work or kids to worry about. If they can't help on short notice, I won't resent them for it but I'm definitely not worried about their opinions while I try to fix a big problem on a short timeline. And you bet your ass one of my exes is on that list. He's a good guy I trust to keep me safe, why wouldn't he be? HIS wife wouldn't be a suspicious asshole about it either, because none of us are crazy.
If it were up to you or OP, this guy wouldn't have been able to get his dental surgery. Don't come at me with this bullshit.
You shouldn’t be engaged to someone for knowing them for 2 years imo. Also she does not love you period. Anyone who says “imma fuck someone else and come back with you once I’m done” is not in love. She’s treating you like a doormat and you seem to accept it and you shouldn’t. Have some self respect and leave
That’s not how any of that works ?
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I think he feels emasculated? Not great at all but I guess a very real feeling
You can have good moments with someone else who doesn’t treat you like shit.
Yes.. I don’t know why it is so difficult for me to have a real talk about money on his face (I have talked about other issues).
People are going on about how he might like you and that may be true, but I would also be pissed that someone I hate is coming over to my house, especially if I knew it was going to be a regular occurrence.
Oh, honey