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No. I would like for us to remain friends after we break up and accept that that possibility isn't going to happen. I do genuinely believe she's going to stop wanting sex with me. I think she's straight and because I was the only person who helped her out during the worst time of her life, she has convinced herself that she wants me and only me and if I'm not with her, her self esteem is slow low that she'll die alone. I don't think she wants me or even wants to have sex with me specifically because her fetish includes basically turning me into a dude. I'm not a man. I don't have a penis. I don't want to act like a man either! That's what she wants. But only with me. Who is not a man.
If she doesn't want my friendship, that's fine. That's not what I want, but I would never try to force that with anyone. I would like to know the best way to leave without hurting her and letting her know that essentially I don't hate her, these are the problems and why we won't work out, we're just not compatible partners but I still love and care about them and I'm going to be there for them if they need it. If she wants to walk away, that's her prerogative and I'm not going to stop her. I just need to know how to tell someone whose clearly a little bit delusional.
But yes. If we break up, I think she's not going to want to have sex with me anymore considering I don't have a penis and I'm not a man.
Leave. Sheâs going to leave you as soon as itâs convenient. Whenever she says sheâs not in the mood for sex, add âwith youâ to the end of it. Take it personal because it is.
Mine had told me a couple times during our relationship she wanted to be friends and I told her I just couldn't do it and we didn't end up breaking up when we finally did break up I told her I would try to be friends and all it really led to for me was resentment and we had fights every time we talked almost I finally told her like I told her before I can't be your friend and told her I was going on a date that night two days later she texted me wanting to get back together
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I only said sure to her going out with him & his friends because she first said that her girl cousin would be there & she wasnât. She also told me that she was just going to go & have a few drinks then leave, which she didnât. She also texted me saying that she was going to use the bathroom then Uber home at 2am then she stopped texting me & got home at 5am because she and her guy friend who likes her were talking in the car for a while when he drove her home. Sorry I forgot to include that.
Absolutely not but, I donât think he should be buying a âfriendâ a $1000 present when his girlfriend of a year is having her car repossessed.
You aren't making any sense. 'No, he shouldn't be bailing her out but he also can't give anyone else anything nice if he isn't going to bail her out'. Lol what? His money is his money and she shouldn't be dictating what he does with it. We also don't know if he did or didn't help her out financially at all in the preceding 6 months that she was jobless. Again, she has given us very spotty information.
If I was dating someone and 6 months in they lost their job, I would absolutely shift things into 'neutral' so to speak until I get an idea of how they handle their situation. I wouldn't be falling all over myself throwing money at someone I hardly know. That's foolish as fuck. And, again, we have no idea what her boyfriend had been observing about her before that time.
I want to go back to your getting your head damaged. In all this rollercoaster of a time, have you seen a professional about this? It sounds like only Mark got to go to hospital. But some of the things you describe, the not sleeping and things getting blurry, those can be signs of damage to your head, brain etc. Even now, this could be worth checking out.
Honestly it sounds like she's not ready to online with someone, not even a roommate. I mean, could you just ask your roommate to leave because you're having friends over?
If she is being respectful about the ask, I'd give it to her a time or two, and then if it continued just broach the “are you really ready to be living with me” question?
I've been married a very long time now… and lived with my wife for years before then. And I've been married before, and lived with people before.
I've have been asked to leave my own house exactly zero times.
Cut the cord and be fucking strong. Print this post up and plaster it all over your house (after you kick him out) to remind yourself why you CANNOT let him back in. Be serious, kick him, block him, tell everyone you know he's ruining your sense of self worth and cut off anyone encouraging you to go back. Surround yourself with those who will keep you strong and don't ever speak to him again. You can do it, being miserable while also being so young isn't worth whatever it is he's feeding you.
The point is she should be asking about it in my opinion. Like it´s irrelevant whether he´s angry or not. She should not be making a decision that will potentially influence another human being for like 70-90 years based on a temporary attitude of somebody who may not even be involved in the life of that new human. She´s asking the wrong question. She needs to ask herself the bigger one. Not reddit.
No child is able to live outside of the womb alone until probably around 13 years of age. Go drop your 2 year old off in the woods and come back the next day to see what happened.
You're not doing anything wrong. Wanting alone time is normal and healthy. Not being able to spend a minute without your SO is not – your gf is overly needy.
Does she not have friends? Hobbies? Her own interests? She needs to get a life of her own too and not depend on you to be everything.
You do realize he is trying to baby trap you right??? like 100% No question…Generally No man cares what BC does to a womans body (unless they are married with a few kids usually). And Generally no man not one “educated” on BC is stupid enough to rely on “pull out game” which is not even an effective form of BC since precum does in fact not give any sensation when it is coming out and can 100% lead to pregnancy…. Further while yes you chose to have it removed in the first place (it was coming time to do so anyways); you would have had one immediately placed if he had not made this ridiculous promise/suggestion of trusting his pull out game. He hoped he would have gotten you pregnant by now and that's why he is acting the way he is over the plan b and you getting it put back in. He doesn't give to craps about your health/what the bc is doing to you.
I think you have just been shown the giant Red flag in this guy. Its up to you what you will do with it.
Good luck on your appointment. Hopefully this time it will be placed correctly and not have any pain associated after the appointment.
The age gap makes me think this guy is questionable at best. No sane 44 year old is dating a 22 year old. Iâm 36 and wouldnât date a 22 year old. He is taking advantage of you and this swingerâs party is just another way to do that. Donât go, you donât know these people and you donât know if you even want to do this. What if he or they record it? It would be in the internet forever. Thereâs nothing wrong with swinging but the fact that this is a much older man and people you donât personally know or havenât met yet is giving me a lot of red flags
No. I would like for us to remain friends after we break up and accept that that possibility isn't going to happen. I do genuinely believe she's going to stop wanting sex with me. I think she's straight and because I was the only person who helped her out during the worst time of her life, she has convinced herself that she wants me and only me and if I'm not with her, her self esteem is slow low that she'll die alone. I don't think she wants me or even wants to have sex with me specifically because her fetish includes basically turning me into a dude. I'm not a man. I don't have a penis. I don't want to act like a man either! That's what she wants. But only with me. Who is not a man.
If she doesn't want my friendship, that's fine. That's not what I want, but I would never try to force that with anyone. I would like to know the best way to leave without hurting her and letting her know that essentially I don't hate her, these are the problems and why we won't work out, we're just not compatible partners but I still love and care about them and I'm going to be there for them if they need it. If she wants to walk away, that's her prerogative and I'm not going to stop her. I just need to know how to tell someone whose clearly a little bit delusional.
But yes. If we break up, I think she's not going to want to have sex with me anymore considering I don't have a penis and I'm not a man.
Be honest. The reason being, you're done with her anyway. You might as well help her out.
Leave. Sheâs going to leave you as soon as itâs convenient. Whenever she says sheâs not in the mood for sex, add âwith youâ to the end of it. Take it personal because it is.
Damn. Let us know how the talk went.
Mine had told me a couple times during our relationship she wanted to be friends and I told her I just couldn't do it and we didn't end up breaking up when we finally did break up I told her I would try to be friends and all it really led to for me was resentment and we had fights every time we talked almost I finally told her like I told her before I can't be your friend and told her I was going on a date that night two days later she texted me wanting to get back together
I guess you guys aren't compatible then 1?. It's only been 6 months. Don't waste any more of your time.
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I only said sure to her going out with him & his friends because she first said that her girl cousin would be there & she wasnât. She also told me that she was just going to go & have a few drinks then leave, which she didnât. She also texted me saying that she was going to use the bathroom then Uber home at 2am then she stopped texting me & got home at 5am because she and her guy friend who likes her were talking in the car for a while when he drove her home. Sorry I forgot to include that.
Yes
Exactly, he'll have this conversation with anyone who'll tolerate him long enough.
Misandrist spotted.
35+ increases the risk of unhealthy conditions for the baby. This is pretty widely accepted
Absolutely not but, I donât think he should be buying a âfriendâ a $1000 present when his girlfriend of a year is having her car repossessed.
You aren't making any sense. 'No, he shouldn't be bailing her out but he also can't give anyone else anything nice if he isn't going to bail her out'. Lol what? His money is his money and she shouldn't be dictating what he does with it. We also don't know if he did or didn't help her out financially at all in the preceding 6 months that she was jobless. Again, she has given us very spotty information.
If I was dating someone and 6 months in they lost their job, I would absolutely shift things into 'neutral' so to speak until I get an idea of how they handle their situation. I wouldn't be falling all over myself throwing money at someone I hardly know. That's foolish as fuck. And, again, we have no idea what her boyfriend had been observing about her before that time.
I want to go back to your getting your head damaged. In all this rollercoaster of a time, have you seen a professional about this? It sounds like only Mark got to go to hospital. But some of the things you describe, the not sleeping and things getting blurry, those can be signs of damage to your head, brain etc. Even now, this could be worth checking out.
No seriously ? I donât wanna
Honestly it sounds like she's not ready to online with someone, not even a roommate. I mean, could you just ask your roommate to leave because you're having friends over?
If she is being respectful about the ask, I'd give it to her a time or two, and then if it continued just broach the “are you really ready to be living with me” question?
I've been married a very long time now… and lived with my wife for years before then. And I've been married before, and lived with people before.
I've have been asked to leave my own house exactly zero times.
Selfish guy
Can a famous person run the risk of rejection by asking you out?
Maybe next month he moves on to someone else.
Choose your regret.
Cut the cord and be fucking strong. Print this post up and plaster it all over your house (after you kick him out) to remind yourself why you CANNOT let him back in. Be serious, kick him, block him, tell everyone you know he's ruining your sense of self worth and cut off anyone encouraging you to go back. Surround yourself with those who will keep you strong and don't ever speak to him again. You can do it, being miserable while also being so young isn't worth whatever it is he's feeding you.
Google; killer usb, or usb killer. Something like that.
He sounds like an idiot, instead of finding out if she was pregnant and if it was his he blocked her.
Tell him dna needs to be established don't just take her word for it.
And you need to decide whether you want to be there support him with this child and women or go and find someone else.
Because she will be in his life for 18 years
The point is she should be asking about it in my opinion. Like it´s irrelevant whether he´s angry or not. She should not be making a decision that will potentially influence another human being for like 70-90 years based on a temporary attitude of somebody who may not even be involved in the life of that new human. She´s asking the wrong question. She needs to ask herself the bigger one. Not reddit.
No child is able to live outside of the womb alone until probably around 13 years of age. Go drop your 2 year old off in the woods and come back the next day to see what happened.
Substance use disorder is a mental health issue.
It was a harmless prank but it definitely wasn't something to get hit over or cursed.
You're not doing anything wrong. Wanting alone time is normal and healthy. Not being able to spend a minute without your SO is not – your gf is overly needy.
Does she not have friends? Hobbies? Her own interests? She needs to get a life of her own too and not depend on you to be everything.
You do realize he is trying to baby trap you right??? like 100% No question…Generally No man cares what BC does to a womans body (unless they are married with a few kids usually). And Generally no man not one “educated” on BC is stupid enough to rely on “pull out game” which is not even an effective form of BC since precum does in fact not give any sensation when it is coming out and can 100% lead to pregnancy…. Further while yes you chose to have it removed in the first place (it was coming time to do so anyways); you would have had one immediately placed if he had not made this ridiculous promise/suggestion of trusting his pull out game. He hoped he would have gotten you pregnant by now and that's why he is acting the way he is over the plan b and you getting it put back in. He doesn't give to craps about your health/what the bc is doing to you.
I think you have just been shown the giant Red flag in this guy. Its up to you what you will do with it.
Good luck on your appointment. Hopefully this time it will be placed correctly and not have any pain associated after the appointment.
??? DAFT MONKEY??
Are you dating a toddler?
I'd have kicked her out of the room.
But you love her and you want to make it work but I'm afraid she won't change.
This is my first Reddit give me a break
The age gap makes me think this guy is questionable at best. No sane 44 year old is dating a 22 year old. Iâm 36 and wouldnât date a 22 year old. He is taking advantage of you and this swingerâs party is just another way to do that. Donât go, you donât know these people and you donât know if you even want to do this. What if he or they record it? It would be in the internet forever. Thereâs nothing wrong with swinging but the fact that this is a much older man and people you donât personally know or havenât met yet is giving me a lot of red flags