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Date: October 21, 2022
Well, you're definitely learning an important life lesson. Never, ever marry someone who you think needs to be fixed. It never happens. Also, his saying that he gave up having kids for you is a major issue. The two of you are incompatible.
As long as the condom didn't break you aren't gonna get pregnant. You definitely shouldn't be freaking out over this.
He said he was surprised.
Few people would be ok with a partner spending time one-on-one with an ex fwb. If you are ok with that I don't really see the problem in said fwb being at the wedding. At least at the wedding she won't be cheating on you, when she's spending 1-on-1 time with the xfwb you don't really know.
I know I wouldn't be marrying a person who does this, but that's me.
You got a lot of mental work ahead of you friend. Best thing you can do is be with your friends and family and try to stay out of a negative headspace as much as you can. Today is the first day of the rest of your life…best of luck
These guys are not worth the time.
The reality of the fact is there is no “perfect time” to do this, and it ain’t easy. But it’s necessary. Making excuses because you’re worried about what may happen will just keep you in this situation perpetually. And it won’t ever get better. He uses these threats as a weapon against you to keep you scared, and to shut you down. You need to straighten up your back, light that fire inside of you and be head strong. He’s afraid of strong women, and will do anything he can to take that away from you. So what you need to do is overcome your fear, and start doing things that have YOU in your best interest. No one else is gonna do that for you. Look at yourself in the mirror if you need to, and say he cannot threaten you, and scare you into submission. You are done with this, now you’re taking steps to stop this abuse. You are going to turn him in to the cops. You are going to tell your family what’s happening. You are going to be strong, and keep your head up. Take his power away. Find your support through your family and friends. You are strong in numbers, and once he sees you aren’t alone and he doesn’t have the power to bully you and all your family into submission he will tuck his tail in between his legs and go on. Report him to the police. File a restraining order. You keep making excuses why you can’t do this and that, but in reality these are all ways to help protect you, deterrents for him, and you just need to actually go out and do it. You need to actually leave, actually tell your family, actually report him to the police, actually get a restraining order, and not let fear rule your life. Because you don’t know unless you try and it sounds way better than willingly staying in the relationship and get abused anyways.
You should have left long time ago. The moment you are lower in priority order for your partner then their friends is when you call it quits.
You have been excusing her lack of time for you many times, and this the result. Next time do not assume things will just get better by themselves, and make proper demands and leave should they nit be met.
You have stay where you are, for now at least, but it's only your own fault.
I agree. If you dont care anymore don't fight. But if you care and want to stick it out, there are ways to move forward. Sometimes it's just a matter of getting stuck in a rut and not realizing you needed to have been more intentional to avoid getting in this place. Maybe you need more independence, maybe you need more romantic outings, maybe you need to revamp it entirely.
I'm married and divorce is not an option in my mind unless something major happens. We've had the “we feel like roommates” feeling and we push forward through couples counseling and make changes.
My husband and I both feel that we could have been happy with a ton of different people. That there isn't “the one” but people you click with and want to care for. I looked at my husband when we were dating and thought, yeah, I could love him and want to take care of him for the rest of my life. Even if we evolve and change, I'll support him, I'll help him through anything, and there's the added benefit that he's cute and good in bed.
That's all. We chose to love each other and our love continues to grow as we put more and more effort into our relationship. It is work and takes time and attention. If you care, it doesn't need to end. You just might need to get creative.
We share a house, the garage and spare bedroom are all his. I don’t touch or clean anything in those two places of the house
Trust the gut on this one. She may not be hiding what you think she is, but she is definitely hiding something….
…..or someone.
I don’t engage with him. I have him blocked everywhere but he uses fake numbers to contact me. I even told him I won’t speak to him while he is in a relationship and he doesn’t stop.
Honestly work on your insecurities as someone else said this is a weird question to ask, even weirder when you basically knew the answer already.