Thank you for the nice comment. I am only 20 and he is 26. I have been in therapy for over 3 years which is why I feel awful for not being able to say no and acting on what I’ve learned in the past. I will definitely look them up thank you so much!
I mean, I fully get why your bf doesn't like what your parents are doing in their home…but I'd actually never agree to move into a house where people smoke in it. Hell, I'll never visit a home where they smoke in it again.
So, he's in a looking a gift horse in the mouth situation.
So you don’t want to reach out because you don’t want someone who isn’t interest in you to talk to you, but you want someone who isn’t interested in you to reach out. Make it make sense. You sound hurt that it didn’t workout. It’s best to move on and not think about him.
Talk with your husband about it at first then depending on if he’s okay or not move from there that’s a large move and a big change for everyone involved. It’s not easy to live with your siblings again after you’ve moved out despite if you like living with them again or not it involves more communication and respect of boundaries than when growing up due to you being adults now. Then the child depending on how long they are living with you will see you as an equal authority figure to their parents. Im speaking purely from experience
Well he didn't want you seeing what she looked like in case you guys run into her, or you end up finding her nudes, he can say it's just a random internet girl
You really think someone as obviously desperate to control as you are (we've all seen your username) was going to put up a post and not be outed for what you really are on here?
Or are you such a manipulative narc you think you can brainwash me too? Go on then.
You helped me a lot, thank you. I don't know what to do. I know I've written this before, but I'd love to be with her, I don't want to lose her, but I don't know if I know her anymore and trust her after all this.
That this other guy being upset that she didn't go with him is an arguing point for her would tell me everything I needed to know. I'd let her know she can go do whatever she wants because she's not my problem anymore.
Thank you for the nice comment. I am only 20 and he is 26. I have been in therapy for over 3 years which is why I feel awful for not being able to say no and acting on what I’ve learned in the past. I will definitely look them up thank you so much!
You break up with her that’s what you do
Run!
Red flag!
This is not normal and is controlling!
He's fucking with his bro. Every sibling knows exactly how to push their buttons. You're caught in the middle
I mean, I fully get why your bf doesn't like what your parents are doing in their home…but I'd actually never agree to move into a house where people smoke in it. Hell, I'll never visit a home where they smoke in it again.
So, he's in a looking a gift horse in the mouth situation.
Two absent parents. Go figure.
Thing is, it doesn't look like she wants to spend physical time together with him, either.
So you don’t want to reach out because you don’t want someone who isn’t interest in you to talk to you, but you want someone who isn’t interested in you to reach out. Make it make sense. You sound hurt that it didn’t workout. It’s best to move on and not think about him.
Talk with your husband about it at first then depending on if he’s okay or not move from there that’s a large move and a big change for everyone involved. It’s not easy to live with your siblings again after you’ve moved out despite if you like living with them again or not it involves more communication and respect of boundaries than when growing up due to you being adults now. Then the child depending on how long they are living with you will see you as an equal authority figure to their parents. Im speaking purely from experience
Murder suicide
Well he didn't want you seeing what she looked like in case you guys run into her, or you end up finding her nudes, he can say it's just a random internet girl
Boredom….what about when you feel with you bf next?…
You wasted everyone's time for your selfishness. Do you have children?
You really think someone as obviously desperate to control as you are (we've all seen your username) was going to put up a post and not be outed for what you really are on here?
Or are you such a manipulative narc you think you can brainwash me too? Go on then.
You helped me a lot, thank you. I don't know what to do. I know I've written this before, but I'd love to be with her, I don't want to lose her, but I don't know if I know her anymore and trust her after all this.
That this other guy being upset that she didn't go with him is an arguing point for her would tell me everything I needed to know. I'd let her know she can go do whatever she wants because she's not my problem anymore.
You really need to find a way out. Gina a roommate situation and just leave. Everything else can be worked out. Yes it’s difficult but it’s doable