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Our son went through a lot recently and my husband and I would really love a few suggestions on what to do. The son has a 6 month old baby with his ex-girlfriend(17). She got kicked out because she was expecting so she moved along with him. That was until the girl decided to leave and move back home. She left us a note saying that she was sorry and we haven' t gotten a hold of her since. My son continues to be working 2 jobs plus it' s taken the rough toll on your pet. My husband and I watch the baby occasionally and there are days whenever he comes home to pick up the infant and he' s completely drained.
I was cleaning and I found a note in one of the drawers. I realized it was written by my son and I didn' t realize how bad things really were. It detailed him getting into a fantastic school(didn' t know he applied to college again) but he can' t go because he has a baby. It made me cry like no other. My baby is definitely suffering, and it' s i9000 even worse that he' s i9000 doing it in silence. When we discovered that his girlfriend was pregnant, we told him that we were here, yet don' t expect all of us to take over. But now, right now I' m torn. I just want him to be joyful. Right now he has no level, works 2 low paying out jobs, and is struggling a great deal mentally and physically. He just got accepted into one of the best universities for ORIGINATE and has a chance to change their path right now, but he or she does have a child. I just really, really want to talk about it, although he said he was not going in his note.
ETA- I would like to add that my spouce and i are completely willing to consume our grandchild but it just about all comes down to whether or not our child will allow us to help. I love the both of them significantly and will never deny assistance to my son when he could be clearly in distress.
There’s nothing inherently negative about telling him that she wants the same type of trip he wants. The only thing making it seem “shitty” is the assumption that he will not respond favorably to this, based on her reports of how he has responded thus far. She said she would be fine with him going on a golf trip, she just doesn’t want him going to clubs and casinos and acting like he’s still single when he has, presumably, committed his life to being with her. If they can’t agree on something as basic as that, they shouldn’t be getting married.
she is a liar. it is not an overreaction. the trust is dead. your relationship can’t survive without trust. you only delayed the inevitable.
on a side note, she is clearly afraid of you, that is also a concern. if your Gf can’t tell you what is going on in her life because she is afraid, that is a problem. it is not healthy for you nor for her. maybe you should work on that in your next relationship. this one is circling the drain.
Just because I'm a jerk to people on the Internet doesn't mean I'm a jerk to my boyfriend. But think what you want kiddo
No. It's none of his business.