He texted me a week or so after the 4way asking if my husband was making life difficult like his wife was and I said that we had problems yes. I texted him screenshots of what his wife sent me. he said it was because he couldn't take her rage and asked for separation. he advised me to do the same and to meet him for a drink to discuss our miserable marriages and “unreasonable” spouses. he is stronger than me.
I'm sorry for any non replies to comments, half the comments I've received I can't view for some reason. So apologies I'm not dismissing advice or anything. I've just been back and forth all day.
If it's ok to share, do you currently online with your spouse? I'm trying to gauge if living together before marriage is the issue with him. If the commitment is already made, maybe living together is not such a difficult decision
I'm gonna send you a DM.
He texted me a week or so after the 4way asking if my husband was making life difficult like his wife was and I said that we had problems yes. I texted him screenshots of what his wife sent me. he said it was because he couldn't take her rage and asked for separation. he advised me to do the same and to meet him for a drink to discuss our miserable marriages and “unreasonable” spouses. he is stronger than me.
I'm sorry for any non replies to comments, half the comments I've received I can't view for some reason. So apologies I'm not dismissing advice or anything. I've just been back and forth all day.
If it's ok to share, do you currently online with your spouse? I'm trying to gauge if living together before marriage is the issue with him. If the commitment is already made, maybe living together is not such a difficult decision
I think it is obv the latter here. I would've def put some shady ass comment in the group chat.